"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mackin' while wasted --

BustedKnucks

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So you have decent game while sober. You are confident in your cold approaches at the mall, restaurants, and other non-alcoholic social functions.

But when you get wasted, your game slips.

This is because in a different state of mind, your skills and thought processes don't function or execute in the same way. In order to become a succesful drunken DJ, you need to practice your approaches while wasted.

You may get shut down at first, and frequently, but once you learn what works for you when sober is different from what works when drunk, you'll find new success.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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musclyjerk

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Women are far more receptive to you when you're drunk - as long as you don't look like a potential rapist - if you're acting/looking jolly and can still walk then it's cool.

I find women approach me a lot more when I'm drunk as they know my guard is down thus they think me rejecting them is an unlikely event.

The Muscly Jerk
 

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musclyjerk said:
Women are far more receptive to you when you're drunk - as long as you don't look like a potential rapist - if you're acting/looking jolly and can still walk then it's cool.

I find women approach me a lot more when I'm drunk as they know my guard is down thus they think me rejecting them is an unlikely event.

The Muscly Jerk

I think i agree with him, although i only know from experience from house parties, considering im not old enough for bars. :(

Just dont get sloshed...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Flabbergasped?

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Drink just enough to be happy.

I talk too much when I'm drunk, so my game really slips cus I ramble and annoy the chick, convey too much interest, etc. When I've had enough to lose inhibitions though, I'm a machine =)

Btw, had some Everclear for new years. Don't ever drink it, for your safety.
 

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Last night i was drunk and i was handling things like clock work. I was pretty touch feely, worked like a charm. Other guys trying to mack also helped me out as well. Nothing like a g unit wanna be speaking like he just got of a boat from some other country. When im drunk...my words flow like theyve been touched from god.
 

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When I'm drunk I have alot more game also. And, things just come natural then because I'm not really thinking of what to say.
 

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I have a few things to say on this topic.

Rule 1: You must always be less wasted then your target. (except for cases of rule 4.e)

Rule 2: A few drinks helps you relax and have fun but if you are out mackin you should not have more than 2 or 3 unless you are doing really well with a chick and you are drinking (or whatever else) together.

Rule 3: Girls that wanna shag you but won't for politcal reasons (workmates, you are her friends ex, "it will ruin the friendship", you have broken up, she's got another guy on the scene etc etc) will give it up when wasted.

Rule 4: Illicit party drugs attract (the worst type) of women.
Some points to remember.
a. Coccaine feels good for the ladies on the **** (and make you act like an arrogant wanker)
b. Ecstacy can either make you impotent (likely) or (think you are) a sex god.
c. Any chick who shoots up should be avoided like the plague.
d. Excercise caution if on LSD (I once got engaged whilst having sex on acid!).
e. Girls go crazy about bad boys, but once you have them will annoy **** out of you trying to reform you and will most likely dump you for being a substance abuser OR pick up all you bad habits and start drinking/ smoking/ snorting half your ****.

Rule 5: Its a really bad idea to go out macking on weed (unless going to a Bob Marley tribute show; in those instances take many big fat spliffs) but "lets finish of the night with a joint" is an awesome excuse to get a girl to come home with you.

Rule 6: If you go out and stay sober you look way better than the other guys, you are wittier, have greater clarity and you can offer to drive all the drunk ladies home like the gentleman you are.

Rule 7: Drugs and alcohol will mess up your game more than anything else. They undermine your health, your sexual performance, your money, your social skills, your sense of reality, your looks and have the potential to ruin your life.

JJ
 

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I managed to hold my own drunk. Honestly made things a lot easier for me. Only problem I have now is figuring out if the good chemistry was just a one time deal because of the alc or if I have a shot for the long run. Anyone else had this problem?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ryannath

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jay, what does the word that got censored say? Coccaine feels good for the ladies on the ****?
 

Jay Jay

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ryannath said:
jay, what does the word that got censored say? Coccaine feels good for the ladies on the ****?
c.l.i.t. (****oris)

Not that I endorse that kind of thing....
 
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