"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ménage à trois

Nouse4one

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I have a 18 year old hb7 gf. She has been sheltered her whole life, sexualy she has never done any thing other then missionary. Though she is all ways willing ( very happy go lucky ) it is just gets effing aqaward with any else sooo bad i have faked my nut, just to get it over with.

I feel that a Ménage à trois with a very experianced old FB (which has allready agreed) would help her out MAJOR. I just dont know how to ask. . .
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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drak_ool

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she s an HB7 who can't fvck... why are you dating this girl?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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An old FB is supposed to help make your new sheltered GF feel better about her sexuality... Yeahhhh, riiiighhhhttt.... :rolleyes:
 

bman

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if shes lame in the sack, shes not ready for a threesome. is there a reason you cant teach her yourself? are you as bad as her?
 

Nexus Polaris

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Yeah, if she's not comfortable with just you, bringing somebody else on board is only going to amplify things. You'll be lucky if you squeeze missionary out of her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ready123

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drak_ool said:
she s an HB7 who can't fvck... why are you dating this girl?
maybe he likes her?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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You must train her!
 

penkitten

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just because she is inexperienced, it does not mean that she wants some threesome with one of your ex fbs.
you could ask, but then i think you will regret it.
 

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Just start pounding the fvck out of her. Do that 2 or 3 times. Then after that, order her around like she's your slave. Women love to be controlled in bed, its instictual.

Be a man, take charge, make the Hoe say NO
 

Fuglydude

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MacAvoy said:
Just start pounding the fvck out of her. Do that 2 or 3 times. Then after that, order her around like she's your slave. Women love to be controlled in bed, its instictual.

Be a man, take charge, make the Hoe say NO
I totally agree with this point...women LOVE guys that are sexually aggressive and dominant...assuming of course that you're not hurting her TOO bad. I think they love a man who makes them feel submissive. Treat her like your sex object.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DonRaul

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You should never ask for a threesome! it should just happen! And how is this going to help her by the way??? Just try to mold her. let her know whats good with rewards and whats bad with punishment.
 
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