"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lying to get what you want.

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I'm not talking morally, I'm just talking about in common practice, is it going too far to lie to get what you want? For example, I messaged a girl on a dating site, and told her my real age (26)...she's 18...she said too old, the oldest she goes is 22. So I got a haircut (I look significantly different with shorter hair), made a new profile, told her I was 21, she said I was really cute and gave me contact info.

Does it make me a slimeball that I'm lying about age to get what I want...sex?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Truth fears no questions...

When you stretch the truth, watch out for the snapback.... ouch
 
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DoItAgain said:
I'm not talking morally, I'm just talking about in common practice, is it going too far to lie to get what you want? For example, I messaged a girl on a dating site, and told her my real age (26)...she's 18...she said too old, the oldest she goes is 22. So I got a haircut (I look significantly different with shorter hair), made a new profile, told her I was 21, she said I was really cute and gave me contact info.

Does it make me a slimeball that I'm lying about age to get what I want...sex?
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I like women much older than me, so I made a profile on POF and I put myself at age 41. I'm getting quite a bit of messages!

Women lie. Men lie. Sometimes you gotta.
 
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Quite funny what happened to my friend.

He went to a club and met this girl there and while talking to her he told her that he was 22 while he was 27, and the girl told him she was 20. They hit it off so they left the club together, and on the drive he told her the truth that he was 27. He then find out that she lied too and she was actually 25.

They ended up getting happily married and they have a 5 year old kid. Not often do you find your wife at a club. lol
 
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Men who lie get laid.
Men who don't lie play World of Warcraft.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is why you don't do internet dating. If you are suave enough and met her IN REAL LIFE, your age (especially with that negligible difference) would most likely have not mattered at all, since in real life YOUR PERSONALITY COMES ACROSS.
 
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