Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Lunch or number close for last-second hail mary?

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Would it be more effective to ask a chick out for lunch after a final exam (in other words, ask her to have lunch with you in about an hour) or merely number closing her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not well. I have to leave in about an hour. I will gamble with a number close unless a DJ strongly believes the lunch plan will work better.
 
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I'd do the number close. Shotgun dates are ****ty in my books. ie. Teeth not brushed, might not have money in my pocket, other plans I forget about. etc.

So number close!
 
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