"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm a creature of habit with many things, especially when it comes to the foods I eat. Looking for some ideas....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm a creature of habit with many things, especially when it comes to the foods I eat. Looking for some ideas....
I'm probably the wrong person to ask. I pretty much eat the same meal every day. I value simplicity and intentionality.

I meal-prep every Sun for the entire week and it consists usually (sometimes I change it up slightly) of:

1 protein - Usually chicken. Well seasoned with cajun spices and herbs.
Carbs - Baked potato, Bastami rice, and or sauteed Yams
Veggies - Steamed string beans, broiled mini sweet peppers over a Teriyaki sauce

I change the carbs or veggies now and then. The protein is different because I avoid Pork and quality beef is way overpriced.

At the end of the day, I do this because it:

Saves me time
Saves me money
Intentional with my nutrition as I have to perform (I'm an athlete and enjoy outdoor sports)

That is not to say, just like I have a grocery budget, I also have an "entertainment" budget which includes eating out, nightlife, etc. So I can treat myself to a nice Ramen restaurant or whatever I crave once a week or when it's a social plan like going out to eat, etc.

It really depends and boils down to:

Your lifestyle
Your health
Your finances

Hope this helps.

Modern Man Advice
 

Willie Naylor

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I'm probably the wrong person to ask. I pretty much eat the same meal every day. I value simplicity and intentionality.

I meal-prep every Sun for the entire week and it consists usually (sometimes I change it up slightly) of:

1 protein - Usually chicken. Well seasoned with cajun spices and herbs.
Carbs - Baked potato, Bastami rice, and or sauteed Yams
Veggies - Steamed string beans, broiled mini sweet peppers over a Teriyaki sauce

I change the carbs or veggies now and then. The protein is different because I avoid Pork and quality beef is way overpriced.

At the end of the day, I do this because it:

Saves me time
Saves me money
Intentional with my nutrition as I have to perform (I'm an athlete and enjoy outdoor sports)

That is not to say, just like I have a grocery budget, I also have an "entertainment" budget which includes eating out, nightlife, etc. So I can treat myself to a nice Ramen restaurant or whatever I crave once a week or when it's a social plan like going out to eat, etc.

It really depends and boils down to:

Your lifestyle
Your health
Your finances

Hope this helps.

Modern Man Advice

I like the sauteed yams and sweet peppers idea.

That works well, because I'm addicted to this Spicy Ginger teriyaki sauce, and put it on pretty much everything.

Thank you.
 

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I'm a creature of habit with many things, especially when it comes to the foods I eat. Looking for some ideas....
I’ve been thinking about stopping by Friday’s for lunch lately, haven’t been there in years, but hear they still have the pan seared pot stickers on the menu. Really miss their szechwan sauce served with it.
 

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Pasta with a healthy sauce (especially marinara or pesto you can make yourself or buy at the store). Long-term energy, filling, very low fat— and tastes good. This is 2 or 3 of my meals each week.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pasta with a healthy sauce (especially marinara or pesto you can make yourself or buy at the store). Long-term energy, filling, very low fat— and tastes good. This is 2 or 3 of my meals each week.
No meat?
 

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I'll just go to my grocery store, buy whatever is on sale or discounted and then google those ingredients, you can also just google a couple ingredients and substitute as you see fit, I have found when learning about different foods it's just best to go in blind.

All sorts of blog recipes online N ****, more recipes than brains in most cases
 
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