Willie Naylor
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I'm a creature of habit with many things, especially when it comes to the foods I eat. Looking for some ideas....
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm probably the wrong person to ask. I pretty much eat the same meal every day. I value simplicity and intentionality.I'm a creature of habit with many things, especially when it comes to the foods I eat. Looking for some ideas....
I'm probably the wrong person to ask. I pretty much eat the same meal every day. I value simplicity and intentionality.
I meal-prep every Sun for the entire week and it consists usually (sometimes I change it up slightly) of:
1 protein - Usually chicken. Well seasoned with cajun spices and herbs.
Carbs - Baked potato, Bastami rice, and or sauteed Yams
Veggies - Steamed string beans, broiled mini sweet peppers over a Teriyaki sauce
I change the carbs or veggies now and then. The protein is different because I avoid Pork and quality beef is way overpriced.
At the end of the day, I do this because it:
Saves me time
Saves me money
Intentional with my nutrition as I have to perform (I'm an athlete and enjoy outdoor sports)
That is not to say, just like I have a grocery budget, I also have an "entertainment" budget which includes eating out, nightlife, etc. So I can treat myself to a nice Ramen restaurant or whatever I crave once a week or when it's a social plan like going out to eat, etc.
It really depends and boils down to:
Your lifestyle
Your health
Your finances
Hope this helps.
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I’ve been thinking about stopping by Friday’s for lunch lately, haven’t been there in years, but hear they still have the pan seared pot stickers on the menu. Really miss their szechwan sauce served with it.I'm a creature of habit with many things, especially when it comes to the foods I eat. Looking for some ideas....
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No meat?Pasta with a healthy sauce (especially marinara or pesto you can make yourself or buy at the store). Long-term energy, filling, very low fat— and tastes good. This is 2 or 3 of my meals each week.
Meatballs. Or fry up some sausage and put it in the sauce. You can also get high protein intake from cheese-based sauces or other dairy products (I.e. a glass of milk instead of a beer).No meat?