"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lunch Date Today.. Need some tips asap

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YoungSir4sho

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So I've been talking to this girl from a dating app for about a week now. She was busy last week to meet up so we scheduled a date for friday. Yesterday I texted her to make sure we still on for friday. She told me her son got scheduled for a hospital visit again (has like a brain tumor or something i forgot) but then she said let's do lunch today. Her break is only for an hour.

I havent really done lunch dates before. I usually do dates at night time. So wha should I expect? When I first see her give her a hug right. But what topics should I talk about? The problem is because we talked for abit thru text over the days in what she likes, that she got out of a relationship few months ago and that she would be willing to try something new but would have to get to know me better.


I know I have to do kino, and I defintely know before the lunch is ove with that I will go for the kiss. If she refuses it or says that she doesnt kiss on the first date then I should know her interest is low right?

I just would like to know what the gameplan should be. Oh and she told me before that she is talking to a few guys but it is nothing serious. I just want to know how can I seperate myself from them and have her want me..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Easyyy there buddy. Way too much analysis and thinking going into it.. You need to just enjoy the lunch with her and let the conversation flow. Do not be in the mindset of "how/what can i do or say to make her feel xyz", she will feel this anxiety and forced approach and not like it. The way you put yourself above the others is a relaxed aloof approach, like you have many other options and what makes her so special anyways. Youre not desperate to kiss her, desperate for her to like you etc., its just a quick lunch date to get to know each other.
 
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I see low interest in her - she cancelled two times?
all i can say is go to a not - so expensive place and have a nice chat
make her laugh if possible
 
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