bigjohnson
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WTF does "I could care less" mean? I vote that it means the poll creator is a retard.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Wolf; It's "I could not care less".bigjohnson said:WTF does "I could care less" mean? I vote that it means the poll creator is a retard.
Francisco d'Anconia said:Living things can not survive if they are not fed.
azanon said:Wolf; It's "I could not care less".
Its not slang. It's just a commonly mis-stated phrase.Mr. Wolf said:Slang, words we speak every day, whatever you call it. If little things like this make you pissed then you have a problem. Good luck with it.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Umm, he's not the only one...Mr. Wolf said:...Hey, the guy found a way to stay on here without getting banned...
Grrrr. I wonder if this is an inevitable consequence of the high rate of functional illiteracy, or just too much heavy metal in the water supply.azanon said:I have 3 people in my office that think "irregardless" is a word.
Francisco d'Anconia said:Umm, he's not the only one...![]()
The correct phrase works just as well as an intensifier as well as having the added benefit of being both logically correct and gramatically correct. I use it often to add emphasis.Nighthawk said:'I could care less' is logically incorrect, but like 'I didn't do nothing' it works as an intensifier. Saying 'I couldn't care less' doesn't have the same sarcastic zing. Therefore it's useful. Whereas 'irregardless' just sounds wrong.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah, that one irritates me a little too, but not as much. The first one is not only idiot-speak it also means precisely the opposite of the generally intended meaning.Nighthawk said:'I could care less' is logically incorrect, but like 'I didn't do nothing' ...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Indeed. Ironically, using the term 'begs the question' as an alternative to 'raises the question' is in itself a (hugely common) 'mistake.'Bible_Belt said:It does then beg the question of the definition of correct language. When more people understand it incorrectly than correct, then wrong becomes right. There are a lot of examples of this.
Now why on EARTH did I find a post as short as that so good?Mr. Wolf said:Field Work vs Keyboard Jockeying
Here are the things, in order, that are fundamentally important to improving your skills with chicks:
Interact with women
Read Seduction material
Meet other guys
Maintain a Life
Interact with women
You'll hear it time and time again, field is key. Nothing improves any skill more than practice. You don't learn to ride a bike by reading a book.
When guys new to the community see guys like Tyler or guys with even a modicum of skill, they are often amazed. They often think they can never get that good. They attribute it to looks or money or living in a mansion, or any other quality they can't easily attain. But these guys have worked hard to reach this level of skill.
Tyler probably has over 10,000 cold approaches under his belt. Protocol went out for 179 nights solid. For a while, cold approaches should become like a video game, where you are continually hitting 'Start', reaching a new level, and starting all over again.
If you're frustrated with the progress you're not making, ask yourself how many different girls you've talked to in the last month. 1? 5? 100? It would be easy to think that this figure is dependent on ability, but it's not. It's dependent on commitment and self-discipline. Any guy can walk down a street and say hi to ten women a day. That guy will progress faster than the guy who just says hi to one a month.
Read Seduction material
The best Seduction materials are a product of other guys interactions with women. They've written down their experiences to pass on to others. Reading can never be as helpful to you as actually interacting with women, but as a reinforcement it is awesome.
You should definitely read as much material as you can, but ONLY when there are really no chicks around to talk to. There is never a time when you should say "I might as well read, because when I meet a chick in real life I don't know what to do". Go out and work it out as you go along.
The materials can really help when they are written by someone who has a better perception of social interactions than you. They can spot things that you would otherwise miss, and that you will end up looking for in future. They can explain concepts so that you understand them earlier than you would through fieldwork alone. But you still need the fieldwork to cement those concepts. If you read about a seduction idea, you will probably forget about it unless you see it or use it in the field within a couple of weeks.
Other people's experience will always be second to your own, so it is pointless to try and make things work for you that are not congruent with your style or that are beyond your level of ability. However it is essential to consider even those things that seem alien to you.
Read as much as you can
Try stuff out, see if you can make it your own
Keep it, or discard it
A careful omission there is "***** and whine that it doesn't work for you", "make personal attacks on the person who suggested it".
Respect that what works for one person may not work for another. Remember also that what doesn't work for you one day may end up working for you in the future.
Meet other guys
One of the fastest ways to learn is to see other guys in action, whether they are naturals or trained PUAs. There will always be details lacking when you read about a particular style.
For a newbie this can be a real eye-opener. Just seeing what is possible, and thoroughly believing that you can achieve those things in the future, is an awesome experience.
Having a regular wing of similar ability to you is a great help. You will have different strengths to demonstrate and different weaknesses to help each other out with. It's important not to stale out or stall with your wing - you should both be reading enough to find new things to try, and consulting with guys of higher ability.
The paid seminars and workshops may or may not be worth it for you. I found that when I took a workshop it was precisely the right time for me to get the most from it.
Ironical indeedNighthawk said:Indeed. Ironically, using the term 'begs the question' as an alternative to 'raises the question' is in itself a (hugely common) 'mistake.'
http://begthequestion.info/
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.