"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LTRs, how do they work?

flying10

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I'm just curious to know how these long term relationships in high school work. I'm sure you've all seen the couple at school that is always together and hardly ever talks to anyone else. How do you think they stay interested in each other?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Vincent

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Not every long term relationship is like that. Some work, some don't.

If the couple is ALWAYS together, that just means they haven't hit the reality stage of the relationship and they will.
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Well, for my current girlfriend, I've been with her for 10 months and havent got bored yet. Maybe I with her but not her with me.

You dont ALWAYS have to be around her you can hang out with your buddies first than go to her later on.

Were usually hanging out with her friends or with mine or alone and we have flirty things going on/ making out/ converstaions about movies, music, friends, old stories, embarrassing moments. Trust me theres hundreds of things you can talk about.

You dont have a problem having conversations with females do you? If you do, than boy, your gonna have trouble in a LTR if your ever in one.

Just keep it fun and intresting and you'll have no troubles
 

Fitch

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LTR are based on honesty, communication and actual interest in one another, not just physical.

And............... Love, or what they percieve to be love.
 
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