"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LTRs, how do they work?

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flying10

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I'm just curious to know how these long term relationships in high school work. I'm sure you've all seen the couple at school that is always together and hardly ever talks to anyone else. How do you think they stay interested in each other?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not every long term relationship is like that. Some work, some don't.

If the couple is ALWAYS together, that just means they haven't hit the reality stage of the relationship and they will.
 
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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Well, for my current girlfriend, I've been with her for 10 months and havent got bored yet. Maybe I with her but not her with me.

You dont ALWAYS have to be around her you can hang out with your buddies first than go to her later on.

Were usually hanging out with her friends or with mine or alone and we have flirty things going on/ making out/ converstaions about movies, music, friends, old stories, embarrassing moments. Trust me theres hundreds of things you can talk about.

You dont have a problem having conversations with females do you? If you do, than boy, your gonna have trouble in a LTR if your ever in one.

Just keep it fun and intresting and you'll have no troubles
 
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LTR are based on honesty, communication and actual interest in one another, not just physical.

And............... Love, or what they percieve to be love.
 
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