"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LTRs, how do they work?

flying10

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I'm just curious to know how these long term relationships in high school work. I'm sure you've all seen the couple at school that is always together and hardly ever talks to anyone else. How do you think they stay interested in each other?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vincent

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Not every long term relationship is like that. Some work, some don't.

If the couple is ALWAYS together, that just means they haven't hit the reality stage of the relationship and they will.
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Well, for my current girlfriend, I've been with her for 10 months and havent got bored yet. Maybe I with her but not her with me.

You dont ALWAYS have to be around her you can hang out with your buddies first than go to her later on.

Were usually hanging out with her friends or with mine or alone and we have flirty things going on/ making out/ converstaions about movies, music, friends, old stories, embarrassing moments. Trust me theres hundreds of things you can talk about.

You dont have a problem having conversations with females do you? If you do, than boy, your gonna have trouble in a LTR if your ever in one.

Just keep it fun and intresting and you'll have no troubles
 

Fitch

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LTR are based on honesty, communication and actual interest in one another, not just physical.

And............... Love, or what they percieve to be love.
 
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