"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LTRs, dont care so much!

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Hello, I've been reflecting on my recent LTR (7 months and some odd days) and I've learned a lot from how women work and what to do in certain situations.

The main thing i've learned from being in a LTR (full of its problems) is to keep your ground! Dont lose your place as the MAN. Don't be a *****. Dont think that kissing ass and buying gifts and being "nice" will get you anywhere. Not in an LTR. Not in ANY situation.

Everything was fine until I acted like a *****. I was too sensitive. I was too caring. Its almost like the LTR actually tricks you into being a sensitive girl. Dont let it pull you in.

I've learned that if you give in to her feelings and start caring too much, it opens the doors to lost attraction.

This post is mainly to inform people to stay strong in their LTR's and dont give in to the pitfalls, you can't risk your manhood.

I've learned from my mistakes and I hope others will too.

Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanks for this post. I am about to get into relationships. I cannot relate so much, but i can still tell because I was in a relationship once...

Except I was on the other side of the situation. Thanks for making me aware once again; This is like a wake up call for me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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