"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CoolCat5191

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i was wondering how to break out of the talking to eachother everyday night routine i would like to have a LTR with this girl any suggestions? thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you're in a relationship--especially LTR--with someone, you shouldn't be spending much time on the phone anyway. Phone conversations are for either

A. Quick calls, such as planning dates and schedule changes

B. Staying in touch if the relationship becomes LDR (studying abroad, etc.)

Tell her that you'd rather talk in person, that you don't like talking on the phone because you'd rather be there with her during the conversation.
 
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sca_p said:
If you're in a relationship--especially LTR--with someone, you shouldn't be spending much time on the phone anyway. Phone conversations are for either

A. Quick calls, such as planning dates and schedule changes

B. Staying in touch if the relationship becomes LDR (studying abroad, etc.)

Tell her that you'd rather talk in person, that you don't like talking on the phone because you'd rather be there with her during the conversation.
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exactly.

and also, just keep flirting and dating and things will naturally progress. dont try to rush it. if you both feel the same then things will happen naturally. dont try and force an LTR.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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