"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LTRS and Much more

CoolCat5191

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i was wondering how to break out of the talking to eachother everyday night routine i would like to have a LTR with this girl any suggestions? thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sca_p

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If you're in a relationship--especially LTR--with someone, you shouldn't be spending much time on the phone anyway. Phone conversations are for either

A. Quick calls, such as planning dates and schedule changes

B. Staying in touch if the relationship becomes LDR (studying abroad, etc.)

Tell her that you'd rather talk in person, that you don't like talking on the phone because you'd rather be there with her during the conversation.
 

Raikojo17

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sca_p said:
If you're in a relationship--especially LTR--with someone, you shouldn't be spending much time on the phone anyway. Phone conversations are for either

A. Quick calls, such as planning dates and schedule changes

B. Staying in touch if the relationship becomes LDR (studying abroad, etc.)

Tell her that you'd rather talk in person, that you don't like talking on the phone because you'd rather be there with her during the conversation.
exactly.

and also, just keep flirting and dating and things will naturally progress. dont try to rush it. if you both feel the same then things will happen naturally. dont try and force an LTR.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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