"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

LTR Type But Receiving Mixed Messages

S

SoulMan13

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 9, 2013
Messages
51
Reaction score
2
There's this girl I've been pursuing for a couple of weeks or so. Whenever we're both on a break and have no lectures and she's not with her friends she will text me and tell me to meet her. We both also walk home together occasionally as we live close to each other. We've not made out or anything yet as she doesn't like PDA and we haven't been in private together yet.

We have a really good time when we're together. She will come up to me and start a conversation and she'll be laughing (hysterically), smiles at me a lot and makes eye contact when she sees me around, slight kino etc and it seems like she's really into me.

However, when it comes to texting, she will always initiate the conversation with an inside joke etc but when I reply she will just ignore my text. It's not just a one off thing as she does it EVERY time. It doesn't bother me as I'm not waiting on a reply from her as I'm talking to other girls at the same time, I'd just like to know what the deal is with her as she's the girl I'm most in to and I honestly see her as the type of girl I would like to be in a LTR with.

Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Greasy Pig

Greasy Pig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2009
Messages
1,675
Reaction score
102
Location
Australia
She's using you for attention and nothing more. Isolate and escalate. Don't play her stupid text game. Cut to the chase, you're being friend zoned.
 
VladPatton

VladPatton

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2012
Messages
3,246
Reaction score
232
Location
NYC
You already waiting weeks and weeks for anything. It's kind of late now to think of even the possibility of 1 date, let alone LTR. One day she's gonna come to you for advice about how her bf is banging her too hard and it hurts when she walks. Make a move, ask her out, or abandon ship. Good luck.
 
nismo-4

nismo-4

Moderator
Joined
Jan 31, 2005
Messages
4,438
Reaction score
1,142
Location
From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
Mixed signals means low to no interest!!! God damn it, I sound like a broken ass record!

She's an attention wh0re who just wants you as a friend. Escalate and if she refuses, drop her ass or go ghost.

Pretty soon, she's gonna ask you how to heal when she's walking funny because I got through f**kin' her. :D

BTW, all women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you're not f**kin' her, you're her girlfriend.

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 
Maximus Rex

Maximus Rex

Banned
Joined
Apr 8, 2005
Messages
2,265
Reaction score
446
Location
Villa Regis
nismo-4 said:
BTW, all women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you're not f**kin' her, you're her girlfriend.

Case closed. Get out of my court.
Click to expand...
:yes: ^^^^^ GOAT Post
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top