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LTR Type But Receiving Mixed Messages

SoulMan13

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There's this girl I've been pursuing for a couple of weeks or so. Whenever we're both on a break and have no lectures and she's not with her friends she will text me and tell me to meet her. We both also walk home together occasionally as we live close to each other. We've not made out or anything yet as she doesn't like PDA and we haven't been in private together yet.

We have a really good time when we're together. She will come up to me and start a conversation and she'll be laughing (hysterically), smiles at me a lot and makes eye contact when she sees me around, slight kino etc and it seems like she's really into me.

However, when it comes to texting, she will always initiate the conversation with an inside joke etc but when I reply she will just ignore my text. It's not just a one off thing as she does it EVERY time. It doesn't bother me as I'm not waiting on a reply from her as I'm talking to other girls at the same time, I'd just like to know what the deal is with her as she's the girl I'm most in to and I honestly see her as the type of girl I would like to be in a LTR with.

Thanks.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Greasy Pig

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She's using you for attention and nothing more. Isolate and escalate. Don't play her stupid text game. Cut to the chase, you're being friend zoned.
 

VladPatton

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You already waiting weeks and weeks for anything. It's kind of late now to think of even the possibility of 1 date, let alone LTR. One day she's gonna come to you for advice about how her bf is banging her too hard and it hurts when she walks. Make a move, ask her out, or abandon ship. Good luck.
 

nismo-4

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Mixed signals means low to no interest!!! God damn it, I sound like a broken ass record!

She's an attention wh0re who just wants you as a friend. Escalate and if she refuses, drop her ass or go ghost.

Pretty soon, she's gonna ask you how to heal when she's walking funny because I got through f**kin' her. :D

BTW, all women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you're not f**kin' her, you're her girlfriend.

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 

Maximus Rex

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nismo-4 said:
BTW, all women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you're not f**kin' her, you're her girlfriend.

Case closed. Get out of my court.
:yes: ^^^^^ GOAT Post
 
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