"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LTR turns cold...

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That's Me

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Hey fellas,

I need your advice on this one:

I'm dating this one girl for 4 or 5 months now and everything started out very well. In the beginning I was not even interested in a 'LTR', but her charm, her effort and her great personality captured me and turned me into a loving boyfriend!

BUT: Everything has changed ever since our exams in college came up and we had to start learning. I know right now we can't spend as much time together as before and that it's a very stressful and difficult situation... but since she started to learn, she turned into a cold, ambitious monster! When we are talking on the phone, I feel like I'm just talking to a friend, but not to MY girlfriend. She says that her behaviour has nothing to do with us... and I know that the situation in college is very difficult for her right now... but my patience has slowly come to an end... I need more passion and I don't know if I can tolerate her coldness any longer!

What do you think? Should I have more understanding for her situation? Or should I dump her? Are her feeling for me still on point??

Thank you!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think some college girls don't do LTR's, just like some guys wouldn't, but not all.

She may be done, how much longer are your exams? You know her and we don't. Some people get crazy during stressful times.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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