LTR turns cold...

[That's Me]

Hey fellas,

I need your advice on this one:

I'm dating this one girl for 4 or 5 months now and everything started out very well. In the beginning I was not even interested in a 'LTR', but her charm, her effort and her great personality captured me and turned me into a loving boyfriend!

BUT: Everything has changed ever since our exams in college came up and we had to start learning. I know right now we can't spend as much time together as before and that it's a very stressful and difficult situation... but since she started to learn, she turned into a cold, ambitious monster! When we are talking on the phone, I feel like I'm just talking to a friend, but not to MY girlfriend. She says that her behaviour has nothing to do with us... and I know that the situation in college is very difficult for her right now... but my patience has slowly come to an end... I need more passion and I don't know if I can tolerate her coldness any longer!

What do you think? Should I have more understanding for her situation? Or should I dump her? Are her feeling for me still on point??

Thank you!!

 

[DonGorgon]

She is done with you but has not told you yet... its coming ... College girls dont do LTRs... they may fake them but most times its not working.

 

[kabatura]

I think some college girls don't do LTR's, just like some guys wouldn't, but not all.

She may be done, how much longer are your exams? You know her and we don't. Some people get crazy during stressful times.

 

[drak_ool]

4-5 months is not a LONG term relationship...

 

[DonGorgon]

4-5 months is not a LONG term relationship...

IT IS IN 2008...LOL people are shocked if you date for more than 3 weeks.. humans main focus now is money not social bonds.