"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LTR Thing: Cutting my hair

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Hey guys,

Got a little situation here. My GF and I are going to a nice warm country for our holiday. Now I was thinking to get my hair trimmed and get a nice tanned head on vacation.

I told my GF about my plans and she was like "please don't do it, I like it this way. You have such nice hair please please don't do it".

So I'm like what should I do? I mean I want to do what I feel like but I don't want my GF to lose interesst in me... We been very busy lately so I really want to spark the sex up on vacation..

Any thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just get a trim to make it look neat unless you have one of those messy looks just keep it
 
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Treetz said:
Now I was thinking to get my hair trimmed and get a nice tanned head on vacation.
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So you are planning to grow a melanoma on your dome. That is the worst form of horticulture I can imagine.
WTF are you thinking? You ever heard of SPF40 in that little country up there.

Listen to your G/f.
 
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I agree with jophil man. Keep the sun off your canister bud. And as a plus side, it seems you look good with your cut atm since your gf likes it.
 
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If you've been with her long enough that you'd travel with her, listen to her.

There's having a personality, and then there's appearing to defy her for the sake of it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thanks for the reply guys. I was thinking about getting a nice trimmed cut like that guy from Prison Break. But I guess you're right, if she already likes it the way it is maybe I dont have to defy her.

Just thought like I had to do it because she is like "please don't", you know?
 
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