"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LTR Thing: Cutting my hair

Treetz

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Hey guys,

Got a little situation here. My GF and I are going to a nice warm country for our holiday. Now I was thinking to get my hair trimmed and get a nice tanned head on vacation.

I told my GF about my plans and she was like "please don't do it, I like it this way. You have such nice hair please please don't do it".

So I'm like what should I do? I mean I want to do what I feel like but I don't want my GF to lose interesst in me... We been very busy lately so I really want to spark the sex up on vacation..

Any thoughts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ariet

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Just get a trim to make it look neat unless you have one of those messy looks just keep it
 

jophil28

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Treetz said:
Now I was thinking to get my hair trimmed and get a nice tanned head on vacation.
So you are planning to grow a melanoma on your dome. That is the worst form of horticulture I can imagine.
WTF are you thinking? You ever heard of SPF40 in that little country up there.

Listen to your G/f.
 

shaunuk

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I agree with jophil man. Keep the sun off your canister bud. And as a plus side, it seems you look good with your cut atm since your gf likes it.
 

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If you've been with her long enough that you'd travel with her, listen to her.

There's having a personality, and then there's appearing to defy her for the sake of it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Treetz

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Thanks for the reply guys. I was thinking about getting a nice trimmed cut like that guy from Prison Break. But I guess you're right, if she already likes it the way it is maybe I dont have to defy her.

Just thought like I had to do it because she is like "please don't", you know?
 
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