"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LTR Six Months..

foomee

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So our six month anniversary is coming up in about a week...
We talked about it, and she thought of maybe getting a nice hotel in San Francisco, going out for dinner, etc.
I had other ideas in mind, one would be horseback riding, cos she loves ponies and crap like that...
The whole SF thing is pretty expensive too... she has money, but I don't want her spending it. I'd rather use my money, or just some of her's... I dunno yet.


Anyways, any reccomendations on how to celebrate this LTR lasting half a year?
The relationship is going awesome by the way.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dannyrt34

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Uhh.. 6 month anniversary? Never heard of it. I really don't think something like that should have a special celebration, maybe a whole YEAR, but six months?

Oh well, you seem like you are in a happy relationship and a good couple, so I'll still give my input. I wouldn't go overboard and do something real expensive, mainly because the whole 6 month thing already seems a little over the top to me. I think I'd just step it up a NOTCH of how it usually is when out on a date with this girl, just a notch. Just something a little more romantic than usual. The horseback riding thing seems fine, it's probably inexpensive. It will set a western mood, so than you can start a campfire, eat some baked beans, and sing her songs on your guitar, hahaha.

(It don't really have to be all that, but the horseback riding idea sounds nice.)

Just have fun.
 

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buy a good porn video, some sex toys, lots of lube, and a hotel room.

Sounds like a fun time to me.
 

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an·ni·ver·sa·ry (n-vûrs-r)
n. pl. an·ni·ver·sa·ries
1. The annually recurring date of a past event, especially one of historical, national, or personal importance: a wedding anniversary; the anniversary of the founding of Rome.

You can't have an anniversary until its a year. Its actually a bi-annually celebration now that you or her has created. I hope this is a wakeup call that this is a stupid idea.

You being with her is her present - thats it. Until you are married don't celebrate being together - its really just a dumb idea that serves no purpose.
 

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heh i knew those replies were coming, but anywyas..if she likes you she'll like anything you plan as long as its differeent.....oh ya get some warming ky jelly and some other fun bedroom time toys
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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