"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LTR showers me with attention when I'm gone

shottywerd

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Maybe I let this slide too much. But I'm being bombared with text msgs from my LTR of 1 year.

For example:

She calls me on the way to class.

Then 30 min go by she's in class and txts me, "I'm bored."

I dont respond then she sends another, "You're annoying."

I say, "Aww you should prolly pay attention to the teacher".

Then she says, "Fine. I won't pay attention to you".

I didn't respond.

Her again, "Yup. Annoying".

Then I say, "You're gonna get a spanky spank". (just a little thing we do hehe)

Then she says "I just miss you and want to talk to me since I can't see you till who knows" (She knows i'm seeing her on Thurs night in two days

This is just one example. She's usually trying to have a continuious convo with me throughout the day. Thanks technology!

I tried to tone it down by just ignoring her. You know try to give her the gift of missing me. Then I get the "Where are you? What are you doing?" texts.

Background on her:
She's HB 9.5 and I love her, amazing sex life. huge win on my part, very competitive female DJ. and her best friend says she's never fell so hard for someone and loves me to death.

I just want to tell her "I'm busy." sometimes, I assume she got so used to being in communication with me 24/7 and knowing everything I do but I want to tone it done some. I told her recently "I'm busy doing stuff with my dad". She asks me. "So whatcha doin with dad"...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Just don't **** it up. Sounds like you got a good catch. And you aren't constantly seeing eachother all the time so it shouldn't get old. No need to overtext. I think you got it man, congrats.
 

Caferacer

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She's insecure. If you have her genuinely interested it's probably a new feeling for her to not be in full control and she is reacting by talking to you constantly.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yeah, my last girlfriend was like that. Always wanting to hang out and call me. Just let her know you need your time sometimes.
 
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