"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LTR showers me with attention when I'm gone

shottywerd

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Maybe I let this slide too much. But I'm being bombared with text msgs from my LTR of 1 year.

For example:

She calls me on the way to class.

Then 30 min go by she's in class and txts me, "I'm bored."

I dont respond then she sends another, "You're annoying."

I say, "Aww you should prolly pay attention to the teacher".

Then she says, "Fine. I won't pay attention to you".

I didn't respond.

Her again, "Yup. Annoying".

Then I say, "You're gonna get a spanky spank". (just a little thing we do hehe)

Then she says "I just miss you and want to talk to me since I can't see you till who knows" (She knows i'm seeing her on Thurs night in two days

This is just one example. She's usually trying to have a continuious convo with me throughout the day. Thanks technology!

I tried to tone it down by just ignoring her. You know try to give her the gift of missing me. Then I get the "Where are you? What are you doing?" texts.

Background on her:
She's HB 9.5 and I love her, amazing sex life. huge win on my part, very competitive female DJ. and her best friend says she's never fell so hard for someone and loves me to death.

I just want to tell her "I'm busy." sometimes, I assume she got so used to being in communication with me 24/7 and knowing everything I do but I want to tone it done some. I told her recently "I'm busy doing stuff with my dad". She asks me. "So whatcha doin with dad"...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Just don't **** it up. Sounds like you got a good catch. And you aren't constantly seeing eachother all the time so it shouldn't get old. No need to overtext. I think you got it man, congrats.
 

Caferacer

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She's insecure. If you have her genuinely interested it's probably a new feeling for her to not be in full control and she is reacting by talking to you constantly.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yeah, my last girlfriend was like that. Always wanting to hang out and call me. Just let her know you need your time sometimes.
 
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