“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LTR showers me with attention when I'm gone

shottywerd

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Maybe I let this slide too much. But I'm being bombared with text msgs from my LTR of 1 year.

For example:

She calls me on the way to class.

Then 30 min go by she's in class and txts me, "I'm bored."

I dont respond then she sends another, "You're annoying."

I say, "Aww you should prolly pay attention to the teacher".

Then she says, "Fine. I won't pay attention to you".

I didn't respond.

Her again, "Yup. Annoying".

Then I say, "You're gonna get a spanky spank". (just a little thing we do hehe)

Then she says "I just miss you and want to talk to me since I can't see you till who knows" (She knows i'm seeing her on Thurs night in two days

This is just one example. She's usually trying to have a continuious convo with me throughout the day. Thanks technology!

I tried to tone it down by just ignoring her. You know try to give her the gift of missing me. Then I get the "Where are you? What are you doing?" texts.

Background on her:
She's HB 9.5 and I love her, amazing sex life. huge win on my part, very competitive female DJ. and her best friend says she's never fell so hard for someone and loves me to death.

I just want to tell her "I'm busy." sometimes, I assume she got so used to being in communication with me 24/7 and knowing everything I do but I want to tone it done some. I told her recently "I'm busy doing stuff with my dad". She asks me. "So whatcha doin with dad"...
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Just don't **** it up. Sounds like you got a good catch. And you aren't constantly seeing eachother all the time so it shouldn't get old. No need to overtext. I think you got it man, congrats.
 

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She's insecure. If you have her genuinely interested it's probably a new feeling for her to not be in full control and she is reacting by talking to you constantly.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yeah, my last girlfriend was like that. Always wanting to hang out and call me. Just let her know you need your time sometimes.
 
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