“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My first LTR and got a few questions...

1. Irritation slash clingeyness - She seems to not be able to get enough of me, which is great its really flattering, but it can get a bit annoying and too distracting at times... can't get other things done.

2. Lack of effort on her part, sure I'm the man and I don't mind but surely in a LTR the girl has to take some of the weight on her shoulders...

3. One-way traffic, she kicked and screamed (not literally) to get my facebook and email passwords, and inspects my blackberry, whilst when I asked her for her password she says "I can't". I didn't care because I could not be arsed to check her facebook, email etc. but it seems so one sided sometimes...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Number 3 is a huge issue. She is invading your personal space, i would refuse on principal. IF she wants to be with you, she needs to trust you. You havent done anything to raise doubt or suspicion, then why does she need to be up in your personal space.
Unless you can be firm with her and tell her to stop and make her stop this is a preview of what the future will hold for you guys. I would run as fast as i could.
 
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YOU GAVE HER YOUR PASSWORDS?????

Change them! Change them right freaking now and tell this brat it's none of her business!

That was a SERIOUS power play on her part, especially since she didn't give you HERS! Seems the only effort she's making in this relationship is to lock you in a plastic bubble!
 
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1) You have to set the tone and be firm about what you do. When you have something important to do, tell her you gotta do it, and go do it. Do not succumb to her if she's being unreasonable, or you'll end up being the girl in the relationship.

2) Don't get what you mean, need some specific details.

3) Do what WaterTiger said, change the passwords and if she asks why, tell her it's because you can.

The main idea is to be firm and congruent about what you do. Be a man, do what you gotta do.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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