"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LTR Questions....

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styleman

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My first LTR and got a few questions...

1. Irritation slash clingeyness - She seems to not be able to get enough of me, which is great its really flattering, but it can get a bit annoying and too distracting at times... can't get other things done.

2. Lack of effort on her part, sure I'm the man and I don't mind but surely in a LTR the girl has to take some of the weight on her shoulders...

3. One-way traffic, she kicked and screamed (not literally) to get my facebook and email passwords, and inspects my blackberry, whilst when I asked her for her password she says "I can't". I didn't care because I could not be arsed to check her facebook, email etc. but it seems so one sided sometimes...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cinamon

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Number 3 is a huge issue. She is invading your personal space, i would refuse on principal. IF she wants to be with you, she needs to trust you. You havent done anything to raise doubt or suspicion, then why does she need to be up in your personal space.
Unless you can be firm with her and tell her to stop and make her stop this is a preview of what the future will hold for you guys. I would run as fast as i could.
 
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YOU GAVE HER YOUR PASSWORDS?????

Change them! Change them right freaking now and tell this brat it's none of her business!

That was a SERIOUS power play on her part, especially since she didn't give you HERS! Seems the only effort she's making in this relationship is to lock you in a plastic bubble!
 
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1) You have to set the tone and be firm about what you do. When you have something important to do, tell her you gotta do it, and go do it. Do not succumb to her if she's being unreasonable, or you'll end up being the girl in the relationship.

2) Don't get what you mean, need some specific details.

3) Do what WaterTiger said, change the passwords and if she asks why, tell her it's because you can.

The main idea is to be firm and congruent about what you do. Be a man, do what you gotta do.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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