"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eiljwa

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There is this girl I like, and she likes me (or so my friends say), though we are technically just friends, and it might be an opportunity for a long term relationship. The reason I'm posting this, is I'm just wondering what you guys thing about LTR's, I've never been in one. I've just been having trouble deciding if that's what I really want. And if you guys are in favor of it, what is a good way to initiate it? I had a good friend of mine tell me to ask her out for ice cream or something. We have been on a few dates, I even took her to prom, but I think those were mostly just sort of friend things. Any input would be nice.

Thanks guys,
Eiljwa
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think you have to really connect with her to have an LTR, not just looks and personality but something else. Otherwise I think you'd be wasting your time.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Eiljwa said:
There is this girl I like, and she likes me (or so my friends say), though we are technically just friends, and it might be an opportunity for a long term relationship. The reason I'm posting this, is I'm just wondering what you guys thing about LTR's, I've never been in one. I've just been having trouble deciding if that's what I really want. And if you guys are in favor of it, what is a good way to initiate it? I had a good friend of mine tell me to ask her out for ice cream or something. We have been on a few dates, I even took her to prom, but I think those were mostly just sort of friend things. Any input would be nice.

Thanks guys,
Eiljwa
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I'am currently in a LTR of 4 months. We started out as friends, f*ckin her never crossed my mind. Then, my friends told me that she liked me. So, she started dressing all sexy n showing off her assests to get my attention. I started noticing her more, spending more one on one time with her. After awhile I asked her out. It has been the best LTR I ever had.

Since you like her and she likes you. Nothing wrong starting a LTR with her. Unless you see somthing in her that is not up to your standards. If it doesnt work out you can always dump her.
 
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Any advice on initiating? We don't really hang out all the time, and never one on one.
 
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Eiljwa said:
Any advice on initiating? We don't really hang out all the time, and never one on one.
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You guys like each other, simply ask her to hang out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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