LTR Interest Level.

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

To me it seems there's more information on Interest Level when first meeting a girl. Not, so much for when in a relationship. So, I thought I'd share some things showing high Interest Level in a long-term relationship.

-She always calls you to hang out.
-She calls/text you wondering what your doing.
-She does whatever you want to do.
-She tells you she loves you first and when casually seeing you.
-She talks about future plans with you.
-She always wants to be by your side.
-She will offer to buy you something.
-She gets dressed up for you.
-She calls you to make sure you're ok.
-She tells good things about you around people.
-She cares about choices you make.
-She always wants you to go places with her.
-Asks for your opinion.
-Helps you do stuff / Do stuff for you.
-Takes care of you when needed.
-Compliments your looks.
-She communicates with you to solve a problem with the relationship.
-She respects your decisions
-She will stand up for you if needed.
-Is affectionate around you and other people. (Possible red flag if she is overly affectionate when she usually isn't.)
-Your sex life is great.
-She wants you to meet all her friends and family.
-She is happy to see you.
-She is in a good mood around you.

I'm sure the the list can go on. But, if your girlfriend of X months insn't doing these things. Or doing them less often; something is wrong. Always protect your heart in a LTR and don't be crushed by some girl. Watch her actions and see if they're genuine!

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

man, my girl does all of that to a tee

You and your girl must have a strong relationship then.

 

[Galardonado]

thats always my case for the first couple of years, then all start to go downhill. WTF!

 

[DJ1234]

yea, good and I agree, most of the time you can get a good high IL girl to do this, but its keeping these things that is a tuffy...

 

[Chocolate Thunder]

What's an LTR?

Nevermind.

Good post.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

What's an LTR?

Nevermind.

Good post.

Long Term Relationship

 

[Supremo]

Yeah man my girl does most of this stuff too.

But I feel like we might be getting into the "routine" phase of being in a relationship.

Time to be spontaneous! Good post man.

 

[Creative]

Great post man.

 

[feelingloved]

Thanks LTR is my fav topic. (sigh)
I need to stop picking girls with divorced parents. I think that was my pattern.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Bump!

 

[Triple T]

My girl doesn't so this, BUT she does these things:

-msn/nex/etc. she messages me first. Sometimes its as soon as i'm Online. Sometimes she talks to me like 10 mins after.
-she has a journal that she writes in everyday, about her day and things she thought about that day. She told me i'm in EVERY one of her entries...even though I'm not with her everyday...so she thinks about me lots.
-She drew me a portrait drawing of me and her...YES a portrait, a darn good one too. Shes very artistic. And this was 3 days after I asked her out and we were officially dating.

So yea...she does those things. I don't have a cell yet but she doesn't call my house phone much.

But I think the IL is starting to decrease...ideas for spicing it up?
I'm probally gonna make a thread in the HS forum.

 

[VIVAlasVEGASBaby]

Good List