"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LTR Interest Level.

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To me it seems there's more information on Interest Level when first meeting a girl. Not, so much for when in a relationship. So, I thought I'd share some things showing high Interest Level in a long-term relationship.

-She always calls you to hang out.
-She calls/text you wondering what your doing.
-She does whatever you want to do.
-She tells you she loves you first and when casually seeing you.
-She talks about future plans with you.
-She always wants to be by your side.
-She will offer to buy you something.
-She gets dressed up for you.
-She calls you to make sure you're ok.
-She tells good things about you around people.
-She cares about choices you make.
-She always wants you to go places with her.
-Asks for your opinion.
-Helps you do stuff / Do stuff for you.
-Takes care of you when needed.
-Compliments your looks.
-She communicates with you to solve a problem with the relationship.
-She respects your decisions
-She will stand up for you if needed.
-Is affectionate around you and other people. (Possible red flag if she is overly affectionate when she usually isn't.)
-Your sex life is great.
-She wants you to meet all her friends and family.
-She is happy to see you.
-She is in a good mood around you.

I'm sure the the list can go on. But, if your girlfriend of X months insn't doing these things. Or doing them less often; something is wrong. Always protect your heart in a LTR and don't be crushed by some girl. Watch her actions and see if they're genuine!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dotcomwill said:
man, my girl does all of that to a tee
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You and your girl must have a strong relationship then. :up:
 
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thats always my case for the first couple of years, then all start to go downhill. WTF!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yeah man my girl does most of this stuff too.

But I feel like we might be getting into the "routine" phase of being in a relationship.

Time to be spontaneous! Good post man.
 
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Thanks LTR is my fav topic. (sigh)
I need to stop picking girls with divorced parents. I think that was my pattern.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My girl doesn't so this, BUT she does these things:

-msn/nex/etc. she messages me first. Sometimes its as soon as i'm Online. Sometimes she talks to me like 10 mins after.
-she has a journal that she writes in everyday, about her day and things she thought about that day. She told me i'm in EVERY one of her entries...even though I'm not with her everyday...so she thinks about me lots.
-She drew me a portrait drawing of me and her...YES a portrait, a darn good one too. Shes very artistic. And this was 3 days after I asked her out and we were officially dating.

So yea...she does those things. I don't have a cell yet but she doesn't call my house phone much.

But I think the IL is starting to decrease...ideas for spicing it up?
I'm probally gonna make a thread in the HS forum.
 
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Good List :up:
 
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