"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LTR found 2 condoms in wallet, what do?

SpazzAttackk

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I left my wallet in my LTRs purse, and she found 2 condoms sitting in there. Theyve been in there for weeks.. I havnt cheated at all. Im bracing myself for the question to come up now, if Ive been sleeping with other girls. What the **** do I say?

Ive never been in this situation before, she told me she found my wallet (obviously she went through it what girl woudlnt) so I pre-warned her about the condoms, now Im starting to think it made me look guilty.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sharkbeat

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She didn't ask you right then what the condoms are for? There's a scheduled time for "condom talk"?

Sounds suspicious.
 

visions

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Congratulations. She's going to be wet for you for months thinking you might be cheating.

yup, believe it or not, that was a dhv tactic.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Atom Smasher

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Whatever you do, don't give off any guilty body language or voice infection at all. Women feed off your emotions, just like when a baby falls down and looks at its parents to see whether it should cry and freak out or not.
 

FairShake

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If you haven't cheated, say that.

If you are planning on cheating, just break it off.

YOU wouldn't like it if she cheated on you so don't be a **** and cheat on her. If you want to get some new pvssy just go out and get it. If you guys are meant to be you'll see her again, hopefully when you're really to settle down. But you aren't right now.

Now if she's ok with a semi-open relationship...think about it...
 
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