"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LTR found 2 condoms in wallet, what do?

SpazzAttackk

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I left my wallet in my LTRs purse, and she found 2 condoms sitting in there. Theyve been in there for weeks.. I havnt cheated at all. Im bracing myself for the question to come up now, if Ive been sleeping with other girls. What the **** do I say?

Ive never been in this situation before, she told me she found my wallet (obviously she went through it what girl woudlnt) so I pre-warned her about the condoms, now Im starting to think it made me look guilty.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sharkbeat

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She didn't ask you right then what the condoms are for? There's a scheduled time for "condom talk"?

Sounds suspicious.
 

visions

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Congratulations. She's going to be wet for you for months thinking you might be cheating.

yup, believe it or not, that was a dhv tactic.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Atom Smasher

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Whatever you do, don't give off any guilty body language or voice infection at all. Women feed off your emotions, just like when a baby falls down and looks at its parents to see whether it should cry and freak out or not.
 

FairShake

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If you haven't cheated, say that.

If you are planning on cheating, just break it off.

YOU wouldn't like it if she cheated on you so don't be a **** and cheat on her. If you want to get some new pvssy just go out and get it. If you guys are meant to be you'll see her again, hopefully when you're really to settle down. But you aren't right now.

Now if she's ok with a semi-open relationship...think about it...
 
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