"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LTR Forum

Should we have a LTR Forum?

  • Yes

    Votes: 12 80.0%
  • No

    Votes: 3 20.0%

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B-Lemond

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We need a LTR forum on this site. As you may or may not know there is another "private forum" with a different website just so we can have LTR discussions. It's an invite only forum and you need to be accepted by the mods there. The site is crap compared to this. Everything here is so much better than that site......EXCEPT LTR advice. The reason we need a different LTR forum is because TOO many DJs here try to give LTR advice thinking that they know everything there is too it even though they have no experience in LTRs. LTRs are different from the seduction/attraction phase. The LTR site knows this and thats why it's invite only, because we don't want wrong advice from wanna be experts on LTR.

We should get a LTR Corner on this site, just like the Moderator's Corner. It should only be accessed by those qualiefied enough to give LTR advice. I'm sick of switching web-sites JUST to post a LTR problem. WE NEED A LTR FORUM HERE! Let's merge this other LTR forum with sosuave and have a LTR Forum.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I agree, because I believe a LTR is different from dating. A LTR is a committment type-thing, and dating is just that--finding your groove, so to speak.
 

frivolousz21

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the problem is

A KBJ tries telling you women are bad from reading this place.

a bitter man who got f'ed over tries telling you its a waste of time


and the women haters who are ussually frauds telll you that you are a women
 

B-Lemond

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What's the point of having all these different forums just for LTRs. It's obvious that people want to talk about it, or else there wouldn't be different sites just for LTRs. IT'S THE INTERNET, how can we possibly know who you are and who your girl is?


[Q] If someone has a LTR and problems they will be found [/B]

O, nooooooo it's the end of the world. Does it really matter what kind of problems they have? LTR? Seduction problems? Everyone posts their problems no matter what they are and people are still safe. The only way to have accurate info given on this LTR would be to have this forum be a private forum so it can keep the unwanted info out.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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B-Lemond

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
the problem is

A KBJ tries telling you women are bad from reading this place.

a bitter man who got f'ed over tries telling you its a waste of time


and the women haters who are ussually frauds telll you that you are a women
That's why it should be a PRIVATE FORUM on SOSUAVE.NET
 

frivolousz21

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LTR forum? waste of time. A monkey could keep a chick around once hes nailed her. I propose a forum devoted to getting rid of the b!tch once youve banged her.
this is my point exactly....this guy preferes alpha males over women!
 

B-Lemond

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
this is my point exactly....this guy preferes alpha males over women!
And that's exactly why it would be a "private forum" in which he will never be able to enter it, at least not with that mentality. NOONE wants to search the world wide web just to post a LTR problem they could easily post on a private LTR forum on this site. I thought a DJ was supposed to be a modern renessaince man, in which he is successful at anything he wants to do. Well how about giving DJs the opportunity here to learn about LTRs.
 

frivolousz21

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relax big man..it will all come together with time.

its not easy getting people in LTRS together...

there are FAR more guys with no life wanting help then dudes in LTRS....

but it will come together
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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S-lemond

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yea we need one here....o and blue i was jk bout me setting up attraction between u to.....well it worked, but i didnt have it plained
 

Sargeholic

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My last LTR, I got her using what I learned from the DJ Bible, then proceeded to ever so slowly lose her interest by becoming AFC again.

We need a LTR forum and a Field Report forum. A sex forum may not be bad either.
 

frivolousz21

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did u just get out of school?

I bet there is some hot hot 17/18 yr olds there!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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