"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LTR Forum

Should we have a LTR Forum?

  • Yes

    Votes: 12 80.0%
  • No

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B-Lemond

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We need a LTR forum on this site. As you may or may not know there is another "private forum" with a different website just so we can have LTR discussions. It's an invite only forum and you need to be accepted by the mods there. The site is crap compared to this. Everything here is so much better than that site......EXCEPT LTR advice. The reason we need a different LTR forum is because TOO many DJs here try to give LTR advice thinking that they know everything there is too it even though they have no experience in LTRs. LTRs are different from the seduction/attraction phase. The LTR site knows this and thats why it's invite only, because we don't want wrong advice from wanna be experts on LTR.

We should get a LTR Corner on this site, just like the Moderator's Corner. It should only be accessed by those qualiefied enough to give LTR advice. I'm sick of switching web-sites JUST to post a LTR problem. WE NEED A LTR FORUM HERE! Let's merge this other LTR forum with sosuave and have a LTR Forum.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I agree, because I believe a LTR is different from dating. A LTR is a committment type-thing, and dating is just that--finding your groove, so to speak.
 

frivolousz21

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the problem is

A KBJ tries telling you women are bad from reading this place.

a bitter man who got f'ed over tries telling you its a waste of time


and the women haters who are ussually frauds telll you that you are a women
 

B-Lemond

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What's the point of having all these different forums just for LTRs. It's obvious that people want to talk about it, or else there wouldn't be different sites just for LTRs. IT'S THE INTERNET, how can we possibly know who you are and who your girl is?


[Q] If someone has a LTR and problems they will be found [/B]

O, nooooooo it's the end of the world. Does it really matter what kind of problems they have? LTR? Seduction problems? Everyone posts their problems no matter what they are and people are still safe. The only way to have accurate info given on this LTR would be to have this forum be a private forum so it can keep the unwanted info out.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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B-Lemond

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
the problem is

A KBJ tries telling you women are bad from reading this place.

a bitter man who got f'ed over tries telling you its a waste of time


and the women haters who are ussually frauds telll you that you are a women
That's why it should be a PRIVATE FORUM on SOSUAVE.NET
 

frivolousz21

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LTR forum? waste of time. A monkey could keep a chick around once hes nailed her. I propose a forum devoted to getting rid of the b!tch once youve banged her.
this is my point exactly....this guy preferes alpha males over women!
 

B-Lemond

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
this is my point exactly....this guy preferes alpha males over women!
And that's exactly why it would be a "private forum" in which he will never be able to enter it, at least not with that mentality. NOONE wants to search the world wide web just to post a LTR problem they could easily post on a private LTR forum on this site. I thought a DJ was supposed to be a modern renessaince man, in which he is successful at anything he wants to do. Well how about giving DJs the opportunity here to learn about LTRs.
 

frivolousz21

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relax big man..it will all come together with time.

its not easy getting people in LTRS together...

there are FAR more guys with no life wanting help then dudes in LTRS....

but it will come together
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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S-lemond

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yea we need one here....o and blue i was jk bout me setting up attraction between u to.....well it worked, but i didnt have it plained
 

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My last LTR, I got her using what I learned from the DJ Bible, then proceeded to ever so slowly lose her interest by becoming AFC again.

We need a LTR forum and a Field Report forum. A sex forum may not be bad either.
 

frivolousz21

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did u just get out of school?

I bet there is some hot hot 17/18 yr olds there!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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