Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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LTR: Boredom; time to call it quits?

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I couldn't sleep. It's currently 4:30 AM and I'm on this little (much bigger now)site I used to come to for advice with every issue that came up with girls. I seem to have lost my balls or I'm just really mentally ****ed up, I cannot decide for myself if I should keep my girlfriend; it's a sad state of affairs.

Let me tell you abit about this broad, and you'll probably wonder what is wrong with me at the end.

Huge tits
Big booty
Semi-stupid (that way they're easy going)
Kinky as all hell
Loyal
Craves sex
Buys me tons of **** (cds, movies, dvd box sets, dinner, etc.)

I think she might even be in love with me, but I almost feel like I'm just with her. I don't wake up wondering how she's doing, I don't yearn to see her many times a week, but some days I do like to see her. I almost feel like I've become complacent with my status. I'm so and so's boyfriend, and this broad is my girlfriend.

I graduate this year, from highschool that is. I have grand plans of doing stuff outside of the US, while most of my friends are staying back stateside and even in their own states to go to college like the world tells them to do. I almost feel like I should be free these last few months, not so much go wild with my ****, but in a way I want to just bang some hoodrats. I'm almost getting unattracted to this broad, sometimes I even have a hard time getting an erection when I have sex with her which is unusual (psychological most likely, but I dunno.)

I know what I should do, but I know I'm gonna feel bad when I dump her. I think it'd really shatter her, it's almost as if I wish I could catch her cheating or she dumps me for it to be easier.

I sound like a *****. Your thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You know I know that is what I have to do. What do I do about Prom, the tickets, her dress, my tux and ****?
 
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How far away is all that?

If it is close, then just suck it up for a few weeks. If it is far, then break up amicably as possible, and offer to still take her to prom (if that is something YOU'D be cool with too - is IS your big night as well).
 
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itishe said:
You know I know that is what I have to do. What do I do about Prom, the tickets, her dress, my tux and ****?
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You know a jerk would break up with her just before prom. Then try and get back with her after prom.

However, a real man would deal with it. You got a time limit, work on that time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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itishe said:
Huge tits
Big booty
Semi-stupid (that way they're easy going)
Kinky as all hell
Loyal
Craves sex
Buys me tons of **** (cds, movies, dvd box sets, dinner, etc.)
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That is the ultimate criteria for a GF (booty optional).
God I love laughing at stupid chicks.

It's not time to call it quits until you have asked her for a threesome IMO.
 
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Can you get other women before HS ends? If not, then I would stick it out with her and break it off with her afterwards when you go to college / enter the real world.

However about the prom thing, how far away is it? If its close, I would say, you'd be better off going with her. However if its at least 6 months away, that would give you BOTH time to find new dates. However if its this June or whatever, I'd stick it out with her. Its kinda a sh1tty thing to do but this as I type this, to me it sounds like I'm giving AFC advice. Take it for what its worth.
 
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I think you need to step back a bit and spend less time with her... Give yourself time to miss her so you can more clearly see the thing that are great about her when you do see her..

And it sound like you are too young to be in such a relationship (immature)
 
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Huge tits
Big booty
Semi-stupid (that way they're easy going)
Kinky as all hell
Loyal
Craves sex
Buys me tons of **** (cds, movies, dvd box sets, dinner, etc.)

I think she might even be in love with me, but I almost feel like I'm just with her. I don't wake up wondering how she's doing, I don't yearn to see her many times a week, but some days I do like to see her.


Other than my gf being pretty smart, you and I are in the exact same situation. A lot of things change after high school, but relationship dynamics are probably always about the same.
 
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That's good to hear, I was thinking only young chicks acted like this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonGorgon said:
I think you need to step back a bit and spend less time with her... Give yourself time to miss her so you can more clearly see the thing that are great about her when you do see her..

And it sound like you are too young to be in such a relationship (immature)
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I think this is some good advice.
 
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