"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LTR: Boredom; time to call it quits?

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I couldn't sleep. It's currently 4:30 AM and I'm on this little (much bigger now)site I used to come to for advice with every issue that came up with girls. I seem to have lost my balls or I'm just really mentally ****ed up, I cannot decide for myself if I should keep my girlfriend; it's a sad state of affairs.

Let me tell you abit about this broad, and you'll probably wonder what is wrong with me at the end.

Huge tits
Big booty
Semi-stupid (that way they're easy going)
Kinky as all hell
Loyal
Craves sex
Buys me tons of **** (cds, movies, dvd box sets, dinner, etc.)

I think she might even be in love with me, but I almost feel like I'm just with her. I don't wake up wondering how she's doing, I don't yearn to see her many times a week, but some days I do like to see her. I almost feel like I've become complacent with my status. I'm so and so's boyfriend, and this broad is my girlfriend.

I graduate this year, from highschool that is. I have grand plans of doing stuff outside of the US, while most of my friends are staying back stateside and even in their own states to go to college like the world tells them to do. I almost feel like I should be free these last few months, not so much go wild with my ****, but in a way I want to just bang some hoodrats. I'm almost getting unattracted to this broad, sometimes I even have a hard time getting an erection when I have sex with her which is unusual (psychological most likely, but I dunno.)

I know what I should do, but I know I'm gonna feel bad when I dump her. I think it'd really shatter her, it's almost as if I wish I could catch her cheating or she dumps me for it to be easier.

I sound like a *****. Your thoughts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You know I know that is what I have to do. What do I do about Prom, the tickets, her dress, my tux and ****?
 
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How far away is all that?

If it is close, then just suck it up for a few weeks. If it is far, then break up amicably as possible, and offer to still take her to prom (if that is something YOU'D be cool with too - is IS your big night as well).
 
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itishe said:
You know I know that is what I have to do. What do I do about Prom, the tickets, her dress, my tux and ****?
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You know a jerk would break up with her just before prom. Then try and get back with her after prom.

However, a real man would deal with it. You got a time limit, work on that time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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itishe said:
Huge tits
Big booty
Semi-stupid (that way they're easy going)
Kinky as all hell
Loyal
Craves sex
Buys me tons of **** (cds, movies, dvd box sets, dinner, etc.)
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That is the ultimate criteria for a GF (booty optional).
God I love laughing at stupid chicks.

It's not time to call it quits until you have asked her for a threesome IMO.
 
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Can you get other women before HS ends? If not, then I would stick it out with her and break it off with her afterwards when you go to college / enter the real world.

However about the prom thing, how far away is it? If its close, I would say, you'd be better off going with her. However if its at least 6 months away, that would give you BOTH time to find new dates. However if its this June or whatever, I'd stick it out with her. Its kinda a sh1tty thing to do but this as I type this, to me it sounds like I'm giving AFC advice. Take it for what its worth.
 
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I think you need to step back a bit and spend less time with her... Give yourself time to miss her so you can more clearly see the thing that are great about her when you do see her..

And it sound like you are too young to be in such a relationship (immature)
 
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Huge tits
Big booty
Semi-stupid (that way they're easy going)
Kinky as all hell
Loyal
Craves sex
Buys me tons of **** (cds, movies, dvd box sets, dinner, etc.)

I think she might even be in love with me, but I almost feel like I'm just with her. I don't wake up wondering how she's doing, I don't yearn to see her many times a week, but some days I do like to see her.


Other than my gf being pretty smart, you and I are in the exact same situation. A lot of things change after high school, but relationship dynamics are probably always about the same.
 
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That's good to hear, I was thinking only young chicks acted like this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DonGorgon said:
I think you need to step back a bit and spend less time with her... Give yourself time to miss her so you can more clearly see the thing that are great about her when you do see her..

And it sound like you are too young to be in such a relationship (immature)
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I think this is some good advice.
 
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