"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Ltr - Bf Gf.......... It´s Not Marriage!!!!!!

Blue Phoenix

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 23, 2004
Messages
1,335
Reaction score
27
Come on Shark.

If you have a wh0re in your hands just treat her the way she deserves.

One day I had an affair with one of these girls and she HAD a BF. Actually he was "bulked up" but seemed to be an ass kissing guy! Whereas I was just being "I don't care about you, your b!tch!" and she came to me (funny but that's how it works in attracting these types!).

She lied to her BF, but not to me. She didn't say "I broke up with him", excuse BS. SHe said she wanted him and I!!!

So why to get jealous? At least she was up front with me. If I really loved her, I'd never allow this kind of triangule happen!

Do wanna know what she asked me?

"Hey phoenix, when you have your GF you will cheat on her with me, won't you?"

My reply:

"Shut up your little wh0re!"

Do you see? You CAN'T date them! They belong to no one!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

squirrels

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2003
Messages
6,620
Reaction score
186
Age
47
Location
A universe...where heartbreak and sadness have bee
God...not a single decent post on this whole thread, INCLUDING the first one.

GWS...there's nothing wrong with going out and kissing/fooling around with other girls. But the guys on here are right...if you're doing that and ENJOYING it, then obviously there's something missing in your "LTR".

Mothers often use stuff like "You're not married yet, go shop around!" as a way of telling you, "Your girlfriend's a piece of sh!t and I want you to find someone better instead of following her around with your tail tucked between your legs because you NEED a girl so desperately to prove your self-worth."

My mother did the same thing to my sister when she was dating losers. Be glad you have a mom that's going to be straight with you like that.

Anyway, what I'm saying is, if you feel the need to fool around with other women, have the decency to tell your girlfriend you "need a break" or "need some space" or SOMETHING.

Flamers out there, the idea to take from this is that yes, you SHOULD be "faithful" to your girlfriend if she IS your girlfriend, but she DOESN'T OWN YOU. You can change your mind, dump her, and move on to someone better at ANY TIME.

Loyalty to a woman is only as strong as your belief that she can continue giving you the kind of life-enhancement you're looking for. But at least be up-front about it.
 

Giovanni Casanova

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 5, 2002
Messages
5,550
Reaction score
18
Age
47
Location
Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
Originally posted by GREAT WHITE SHARK
When I will be like 55 old I want to think of the past and be proud of it.
Good luck with that.
 

GREAT WHITE SHARK

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 19, 2001
Messages
682
Reaction score
1
Location
EVERYWHERE!!
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Good luck with that.
thanks
 

GREAT WHITE SHARK

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 19, 2001
Messages
682
Reaction score
1
Location
EVERYWHERE!!
Originally posted by squirrels
Flamers out there, the idea to take from this is that yes, you SHOULD be "faithful" to your girlfriend if she IS your girlfriend, but she DOESN'T OWN YOU. You can change your mind, dump her, and move on to someone better at ANY TIME.

agree.

I doubt there is more than 2 relationships (bf gf) in this earth where the man and the woman are 100 % loyal to each other. (this is generally speaking, abstract a bit)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Eternal

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 7, 2001
Messages
5,511
Reaction score
10
Originally posted by GREAT WHITE SHARK
yes, she learned everything with your mom, but somethings yours tried to teach her, she was afraid of doing, like having sex with animals....
WOO! Great response! *Applauds, looks around, sees everyone else going "wtf!?"*

Okie, I asked not to be a dumbass unlike you, but because only mothers that are promiscous (a slut) would tell thier son to be like that.
 
Top