Understood, Mr. Me.
I believe that I made it clear that LL has valueable insight, but it's not necessarily perfect nor 'dead on' simply because she's a woman.
I often see much resentment towards women here, and I feel it is misplaced in this particular situation, Mr. Me.
(I think it is important to extend courtesy to people who make a sincere effort to help, be it man or woman. I also wanted to mentioned that if say, my friend Victory Unlimited offered good advice, but got an inappropriately rude response, I would have also spoken up for him. )
However, I extend her the courtesy to listen to her advice, and try to see what she is trying to get from reading the situation.
My view is "what is she getting at here? What is she seeing that we may not be seeing?"
No, Women don't have a 'free pass',nor any special priviledges ( I really don't like any double standards that have been shoved down our throats for many years) nor do they, as I believe I mentioned in my reply, have a monopoly on the truth, but in the case of LL I firmly believe she should be heard out. I believe that while even she would be the first to say she doesnt have the perspective of every single woman out there, she isnt trying to, she is trying to address this particular scenario, and this particular woman.
I also advocate that just because a woman is trying to give insight and advice, this doesnt automatically disqualify her from gving it.
And just because a Man may have a hunch or a belief about a woman's behavior, doesnt make his assumption 100% correct either.
We all have a choice on whom we listen to and heed advice from, Mr. Me.
No one has a monopoly on the truth.
(and we should be very aware of those who try to shove their 'truths' down our throat too)
And as grown, mature men, having these preconceived notions that women are Incapable of giving good advice, and female perspective is always inferior and unreliable doesnt do any of us any good.
(I think we should be careful of how we use the words like 'always' and 'never', but thats me)
And as grown, mature men, who are all on the path to Self Realizaton, we also acknowledge obviously that the 'symp' perspective is most definitely not one to adhere to, but our sense of camaraderie and wanting to help each other out, male or female, developing our Masculinity to a higher degree, and growth and expertise (not just experience) is of more importance than petty jabs at each other.
I hope we can all truly learn a lesson here, and rise above this and become stronger, better Men. Not just for women, but for ourselves as well...
Good luck to you too, Mr. Me.