"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LSE girls and shyt tests

The_Lifter

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F.U.C.K.I.N.G hell. I've had quite enough of repeated shyt tests. I'm passing them by either confronting them head on or deflecting them entirely. But she's testing me all the time "Oh, I was talking to this guy" "Oh, I met this guy" I don't fu.cking care. Seriously.

Is this normal with LSE girls?
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Centaurion

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LSE?

You sure you don't mean LSD?
:cheer:

But yeah, I hear you about those sh!t tests. I've been seing my gf for 2 months now, and she keeps throwing sh!t tests left and right. Whenever she goes "Oh, I was talking to this nice guy", I go "uh uh good for ya" *zips beer*.

Best thing is to act non-chalent towards her when she brings sh!t like that up. Most likely she just wants to get a rise out of you. Hell I know that she knows that once she's out the door I can hook up with any other chick in the flash of an eye.
 

Warlord

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You know what a lot of girls do that. If girl knows I'm interested in her, she will most likely mention a male friend or a guy she was waiting for a call for or they mention casually they plan to have dinner with some random guy. She's trying to see what you're made out of whether you care or not. If you do care or start appearing wimpy in front of her, you just failed the test.

Don't be mad about it, girls pull this to see how much control they have over you because deep down they're the ones that are most insecure unless you're one of those guys that can't go to movie theaters or bars alone.

Be indifferent and continue to assertively dominate her.
 

The_Lifter

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I think in this case they're almost a last resort to attempt to garner whether or not she could ever have me. Just tonight she said 'if I get REALLY confident I might even go for you'. Almost made me think I should fail them, just to show that she does have a chance - but nah - that way when I do bust a move for the close she'll know she's the luckiest thing alive.
 

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make hte move and kiss her!

girls do this to see if you care enough about them to get jealous.
yes many girls deep down are insecure creatures and need validation/attention.

But it seems that they often do this on the guy they want (or care about).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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