"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The_Lifter

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F.U.C.K.I.N.G hell. I've had quite enough of repeated shyt tests. I'm passing them by either confronting them head on or deflecting them entirely. But she's testing me all the time "Oh, I was talking to this guy" "Oh, I met this guy" I don't fu.cking care. Seriously.

Is this normal with LSE girls?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Centaurion

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LSE?

You sure you don't mean LSD?
:cheer:

But yeah, I hear you about those sh!t tests. I've been seing my gf for 2 months now, and she keeps throwing sh!t tests left and right. Whenever she goes "Oh, I was talking to this nice guy", I go "uh uh good for ya" *zips beer*.

Best thing is to act non-chalent towards her when she brings sh!t like that up. Most likely she just wants to get a rise out of you. Hell I know that she knows that once she's out the door I can hook up with any other chick in the flash of an eye.
 

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You know what a lot of girls do that. If girl knows I'm interested in her, she will most likely mention a male friend or a guy she was waiting for a call for or they mention casually they plan to have dinner with some random guy. She's trying to see what you're made out of whether you care or not. If you do care or start appearing wimpy in front of her, you just failed the test.

Don't be mad about it, girls pull this to see how much control they have over you because deep down they're the ones that are most insecure unless you're one of those guys that can't go to movie theaters or bars alone.

Be indifferent and continue to assertively dominate her.
 

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I think in this case they're almost a last resort to attempt to garner whether or not she could ever have me. Just tonight she said 'if I get REALLY confident I might even go for you'. Almost made me think I should fail them, just to show that she does have a chance - but nah - that way when I do bust a move for the close she'll know she's the luckiest thing alive.
 

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make hte move and kiss her!

girls do this to see if you care enough about them to get jealous.
yes many girls deep down are insecure creatures and need validation/attention.

But it seems that they often do this on the guy they want (or care about).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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