been awhile, i generally do not like the attitude on here, which led me to post some odd ideas, anyways i'm back and i have more experience and would like to help people who actually want help on how to Love girls
-talked to this girl a couple brief times before, usually in a stance where it was apparent i was interested in her but distant, knew her from mutual friends
-got girl's number at a party, just said "hey i know we havent talked much but what is your number, do you think that is a good idea?" -didnt look for reaction- put my hand on her shoulder and said i'd probably call her sometime
-called 3 days later, i say "hey would you like to get coffee on thursday(3 days later)? ... 8:30 then?"
-10min late to her place, we go to coffee, I pay, then i take her to my place to watch me eat, then to a pool hall (she pays), then to a bar (dutch) ... asked some questions to she if she was interesting, somehow she knows about party i am going to, she asks me to drive her, i do kiss test, she hugs, she invites me we have a drink and I make no further move
-i call twice the next day, second time leaving a message saying "if you want me to drive you give me a call" , she calls back and says ok, we go to the party, i let her do her own thing, but gradually go back to her, we dance, i let this creep talk to her forever, we agree that it is time to leave, she explains about the other guys she was talking to and how she isnt interested, i hold her hand on way to car
-she invites me in again, kisses me - i move my face so it lands on my cheek, we start making out, she invites me into her room, we go at it, i stay the night, we go at it again, btw i plan on calling again ...
here are the keys
1. flirt subdued ****y-funny sporatically
2. share many interests, share some stories of fun things you have done/do
3. if the conversation dulls, if she talks to another guy, if she gives you an odd look, Always remain calm and cool
4. realize that it is easier when you are geniunely interested in the girl and find her very attractive, and that this is the point in the first place
5. know when to strike, e.g. I knew I had to get her number at that party or it was too late
6. do what you are afraid of, e.g. I did not really feel like calling a second time about the second party, but I remembered that girls are insecure and I wanted to show her that it was what I wanted
7. use a little push-pull but too much and nobody gets what they want
-talked to this girl a couple brief times before, usually in a stance where it was apparent i was interested in her but distant, knew her from mutual friends
-got girl's number at a party, just said "hey i know we havent talked much but what is your number, do you think that is a good idea?" -didnt look for reaction- put my hand on her shoulder and said i'd probably call her sometime
-called 3 days later, i say "hey would you like to get coffee on thursday(3 days later)? ... 8:30 then?"
-10min late to her place, we go to coffee, I pay, then i take her to my place to watch me eat, then to a pool hall (she pays), then to a bar (dutch) ... asked some questions to she if she was interesting, somehow she knows about party i am going to, she asks me to drive her, i do kiss test, she hugs, she invites me we have a drink and I make no further move
-i call twice the next day, second time leaving a message saying "if you want me to drive you give me a call" , she calls back and says ok, we go to the party, i let her do her own thing, but gradually go back to her, we dance, i let this creep talk to her forever, we agree that it is time to leave, she explains about the other guys she was talking to and how she isnt interested, i hold her hand on way to car
-she invites me in again, kisses me - i move my face so it lands on my cheek, we start making out, she invites me into her room, we go at it, i stay the night, we go at it again, btw i plan on calling again ...
here are the keys
1. flirt subdued ****y-funny sporatically
2. share many interests, share some stories of fun things you have done/do
3. if the conversation dulls, if she talks to another guy, if she gives you an odd look, Always remain calm and cool
4. realize that it is easier when you are geniunely interested in the girl and find her very attractive, and that this is the point in the first place
5. know when to strike, e.g. I knew I had to get her number at that party or it was too late
6. do what you are afraid of, e.g. I did not really feel like calling a second time about the second party, but I remembered that girls are insecure and I wanted to show her that it was what I wanted
7. use a little push-pull but too much and nobody gets what they want