"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bible_Belt

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I just add everybody. My best luck is from girls who message me first. I try to have a lot of friends, then every so often I will pull up my news feed and "love" the first pic of boobs or butts that scroll by, which puts you in everyone else's feed.

The biggest point of fetlife to me is seeing the freaky things that are on people's minds. No matter how weird you feel about yourself, there's someone weirder. I saw one guy's profile whose fetish was to dress chicks up like little red riding hood. The site promotes acceptance of people who are different from you, which I think is a good thing. I've talked to women who are into knife and fire play. I can't bring myself to whip out a blowtorch during sex and threaten to burn a girl with it, just not into that, but hey, no judgment here....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I just add everybody. My best luck is from girls who message me first. I try to have a lot of friends, then every so often I will pull up my news feed and "love" the first pic of boobs or butts that scroll by, which puts you in everyone else's feed.

The biggest point of fetlife to me is seeing the freaky things that are on people's minds. No matter how weird you feel about yourself, there's someone weirder. I saw one guy's profile whose fetish was to dress chicks up like little red riding hood. The site promotes acceptance of people who are different from you, which I think is a good thing. I've talked to women who are into knife and fire play. I can't bring myself to whip out a blowtorch during sex and threaten to burn a girl with it, just not into that, but hey, no judgment here....
Do you have to post kinky pics of yourself to get any luck, or just some no shirt pics?
 

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Good post to backup your story, fellow DJs take notes and post those picture.
Ok I'll try to get a pic tonight of the one I'm banging the past 2 months. She's overweight but nice pssy in my opinion. She's wanting to move in with me I think. NOT gonna let it happen. The ONLY way I'd allow that is IF she gets on the Bike and loses the pounds, cause then? She'd be very acceptable in public/neighbors for me. She's very smart, just has a pooch.
 

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The ONLY way I'd allow that is IF she gets on the Bike and loses the pounds, cause then? She'd be very acceptable in public/neighbors for me. She's very smart, just has a pooch.
So it's not that you dislike it, but you're worried about what other people would think?
 

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She kinda bolted on me last night. I was thinking this might have been a one night stand. I put off texting her all day, finally did so tonight. We had an enlightening conversation. She told me she hardly ever has one night stands and feels very guilty afterward, thus the bolting. She also said she has always been taught that seeing older men is bad, thus more guilt. She told me I am not her type at all and that she is not interested in dating, BUT she has a strong desire to submit and will keep seeing me. She told me if she gets a boyfriend that all of this will probably stop. I had to laugh at the "probably" qualifier, as well as the comment about dating. I told her all that was cool with me and that I couldn't remember the last time I went on a date.

I think I would be happy with a relationship with her, but she is the one saying "no, let's just fvck." I can live with that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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banging hot asians is the best I've been doing it for years. They're pretty, in phenomenal shape, have tight pussies, get very wet, and love to fvck. I am pounding a hot 22 year old right now, and she actually knows how to fvck and give better champion level blowj0bs than girls I have banged five or more years older than her. My nickname for her is juice box because she gets so wet she leaves a puddle in my bed. And it's true they tend to be a bit on the freaky side, mine likes to get choked and whipped. She seems to like the pain.

Plus asian girls are generally pretty loyal and lots of fun.
Pics
 

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So you did you keep seeing her?
Nope. I texted her once more, no reply. Then I saw pics of some other guy tying her up on fetlife. Whoops. She was really uptight, anyway. Nice body, but not a lot of fun. The last time I looked at her page it said she was in a relationship.
 
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