"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt

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I just add everybody. My best luck is from girls who message me first. I try to have a lot of friends, then every so often I will pull up my news feed and "love" the first pic of boobs or butts that scroll by, which puts you in everyone else's feed.

The biggest point of fetlife to me is seeing the freaky things that are on people's minds. No matter how weird you feel about yourself, there's someone weirder. I saw one guy's profile whose fetish was to dress chicks up like little red riding hood. The site promotes acceptance of people who are different from you, which I think is a good thing. I've talked to women who are into knife and fire play. I can't bring myself to whip out a blowtorch during sex and threaten to burn a girl with it, just not into that, but hey, no judgment here....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I just add everybody. My best luck is from girls who message me first. I try to have a lot of friends, then every so often I will pull up my news feed and "love" the first pic of boobs or butts that scroll by, which puts you in everyone else's feed.

The biggest point of fetlife to me is seeing the freaky things that are on people's minds. No matter how weird you feel about yourself, there's someone weirder. I saw one guy's profile whose fetish was to dress chicks up like little red riding hood. The site promotes acceptance of people who are different from you, which I think is a good thing. I've talked to women who are into knife and fire play. I can't bring myself to whip out a blowtorch during sex and threaten to burn a girl with it, just not into that, but hey, no judgment here....
Do you have to post kinky pics of yourself to get any luck, or just some no shirt pics?
 

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Good post to backup your story, fellow DJs take notes and post those picture.
Ok I'll try to get a pic tonight of the one I'm banging the past 2 months. She's overweight but nice pssy in my opinion. She's wanting to move in with me I think. NOT gonna let it happen. The ONLY way I'd allow that is IF she gets on the Bike and loses the pounds, cause then? She'd be very acceptable in public/neighbors for me. She's very smart, just has a pooch.
 

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The ONLY way I'd allow that is IF she gets on the Bike and loses the pounds, cause then? She'd be very acceptable in public/neighbors for me. She's very smart, just has a pooch.
So it's not that you dislike it, but you're worried about what other people would think?
 

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She kinda bolted on me last night. I was thinking this might have been a one night stand. I put off texting her all day, finally did so tonight. We had an enlightening conversation. She told me she hardly ever has one night stands and feels very guilty afterward, thus the bolting. She also said she has always been taught that seeing older men is bad, thus more guilt. She told me I am not her type at all and that she is not interested in dating, BUT she has a strong desire to submit and will keep seeing me. She told me if she gets a boyfriend that all of this will probably stop. I had to laugh at the "probably" qualifier, as well as the comment about dating. I told her all that was cool with me and that I couldn't remember the last time I went on a date.

I think I would be happy with a relationship with her, but she is the one saying "no, let's just fvck." I can live with that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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banging hot asians is the best I've been doing it for years. They're pretty, in phenomenal shape, have tight pussies, get very wet, and love to fvck. I am pounding a hot 22 year old right now, and she actually knows how to fvck and give better champion level blowj0bs than girls I have banged five or more years older than her. My nickname for her is juice box because she gets so wet she leaves a puddle in my bed. And it's true they tend to be a bit on the freaky side, mine likes to get choked and whipped. She seems to like the pain.

Plus asian girls are generally pretty loyal and lots of fun.
Pics
 

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So you did you keep seeing her?
Nope. I texted her once more, no reply. Then I saw pics of some other guy tying her up on fetlife. Whoops. She was really uptight, anyway. Nice body, but not a lot of fun. The last time I looked at her page it said she was in a relationship.
 
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