nicksaiz65
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What’s up guys. Posting a report from a pretty crazy two-night sequence. This one needs some context first.
I recently made up with my old wing. We used to live together, had a major fight, and it resulted in a falling out. I moved out after that, and for a while I was basically doing everything solo. During that time I had been working on fixing my financial situation, and I had not been going out consistently for months because of work, weekends getting taken, and life getting in the way. But when I did go out, I was mostly going out solo.
That ended up helping me a lot.
Solo used to feel awkward and stressful, but after enough reps it started to feel normal. I was fully prepared to go out solo that Friday night, but my old wing came up to me in person and sincerely apologized for everything that happened. We had a real heart-to-heart, I accepted the apology, and since I was planning to go out anyway, I invited him.
We pre-gamed and went out.
5/22: First night back out together
The first session went well.
We probably hit around 30 approaches. Good volume overall. No pull from that night, but it was a solid session and it was good to be back out. I could still feel the benefit of the solo sessions I had been doing. Even with a wing back in the mix, I felt more comfortable taking action and not needing someone else to make the night feel normal.
No crazy close, but good volume and good momentum.
5/23: Second night
We went out again the next night. Started by warming up at a rooftop bar and did around five approaches. After that, we decided to head toward the strip.
On the drive over, we saw two girls walking uphill on the street. They were sisters, which made the whole story even crazier later. We were blasting music and vibing in the car. My wing stopped at the light, honked, and opened them directly. They were walking to their car and then planning to go to the strip. We told them we were going there too and said they should hop in.
They actually did. So now we have two girls in the car with us and we are vibing.
They gave us directions to their car because they had a bottle in there. We stopped there, drank in the car a bit, then eventually went to the strip.
At this point it was pretty physical. I was holding Girl A’s hand, and the vibe was on.
It was also late, around 2 AM, and the bars were closing, so we went for the pull. Since my wing and I live separately now, we went back to his place.
Back at the apartment
We got back to his place and kept drinking and vibing. Originally I was with Girl A and we isolated into a different area of the apartment. We started making out and things escalated. I got her partially undressed, but when I tried to move things further she stopped me, so I backed off.
Meanwhile, my wing ended up closing with Girl B, though apparently that wasn’t exactly smooth either.
Later on, the vibe kept going and we ended up switching. I brought Girl B down to my apartment. Things got physical, we made out & she was grabbing my d*ck, but again I was not able to fully close.
At that point I figured the night was basically over. Eventually the girls disappeared and I thought they had left.
Day two
I went to sleep thinking that was it. Then I woke up to the girls knocking on my door. Apparently they had come back, it was around 11 AM.
I invited them in, and they asked if they could crash for a bit while they waited on their grandma to pick them up. I said sure. Girl A immediately knocked out in my bed, so I ended up vibing with Girl B for a while. We hung out, cooked some food, made Brussels sprouts and mac and cheese, and then somehow started drinking again. Vodka came out and the whole thing just kept going.
Eventually Girl B and I got physical again. It seemed she was feeling me. We escalated in the bathroom(her sister was napping on my bed), and she went down on me, but I still could not fully close with her. Things did go further than before, but no full close.
After that we both ended up falling asleep.
Girl A wakes up
Later on, Girl A woke me up. We started vibing again and watched some TV. Eventually we started making out again, and this time things escalated further than the night before. There was still some resistance at first, but the vibe was different this time. More comfort, more time, less chaos.
She was very tight, so I slowed down, fingered her a bit, warmed her up more, and had to calibrate instead of forcing it.
Eventually we hooked up. This was the actual close from the whole sequence.
After that, I invited my wing down and he was able to isolate and hook up with Girl A as well.
So by the end of the whole thing, my wing ended up hooking up with both girls. I hooked up with Girl A and Girl B went down on me, but I did not fully close with her.
The whole situation was ridiculous in the best way. At one point one of them was just casually walking around my apartment half naked like she lived there. She also seemed to enjoy my robe and sweatpants.
Eventually I had to send them home in an Uber. Girl A told me she loved me before she left (drunken affection, but still nice haha.)
Since neither of us had work the next day, my wing and I hit a few quick approaches on the strip after that.
Analysis
This was easily one of the crazier sequences I have had. The biggest thing that stands out is that this all started from taking action and approaching directly.
We saw two girls walking on the street, my wing opened directly from the car, and we led from there. They were going to the strip, we were going to the strip, and we made the logistics easy. That was the key.
Instead of overthinking it, we just created the next step:
Another important point is that the pull did not happen from a normal bar set. It happened because we were willing to engage outside the venue and move quickly when the opportunity appeared. That is a good reminder that opportunities are not always inside the bar. Sometimes they are on the street, on the way to the next venue, or in transit. Street game is truly a beast and honestly it's my favorite.
What I could have done better
The biggest thing I could have done better was slow down during the first escalation with Girl A. She was into me, but when I hit a bit of LMR, I should have adjusted faster and warmed things up more before trying to move further. That probably would have made the first attempt smoother.
The funny part is that with more time and comfort the next day, Girl A ended up being the one I actually closed with.
So the attraction was there. The timing and comfort were the issue.
Big takeaways
Two-night sequence(three if we count Sunday.)
Night one was around 30 approaches with no pull, but good volume and good momentum.
Night two started with a rooftop warm-up, turned into a street pull from the car, led to both girls coming back, and then somehow turned into a day-two situation the next morning.
Definitely one of the craziest stories I have had in a while.
Hell yeah.
I recently made up with my old wing. We used to live together, had a major fight, and it resulted in a falling out. I moved out after that, and for a while I was basically doing everything solo. During that time I had been working on fixing my financial situation, and I had not been going out consistently for months because of work, weekends getting taken, and life getting in the way. But when I did go out, I was mostly going out solo.
That ended up helping me a lot.
Solo used to feel awkward and stressful, but after enough reps it started to feel normal. I was fully prepared to go out solo that Friday night, but my old wing came up to me in person and sincerely apologized for everything that happened. We had a real heart-to-heart, I accepted the apology, and since I was planning to go out anyway, I invited him.
We pre-gamed and went out.
5/22: First night back out together
The first session went well.
We probably hit around 30 approaches. Good volume overall. No pull from that night, but it was a solid session and it was good to be back out. I could still feel the benefit of the solo sessions I had been doing. Even with a wing back in the mix, I felt more comfortable taking action and not needing someone else to make the night feel normal.
No crazy close, but good volume and good momentum.
5/23: Second night
We went out again the next night. Started by warming up at a rooftop bar and did around five approaches. After that, we decided to head toward the strip.
On the drive over, we saw two girls walking uphill on the street. They were sisters, which made the whole story even crazier later. We were blasting music and vibing in the car. My wing stopped at the light, honked, and opened them directly. They were walking to their car and then planning to go to the strip. We told them we were going there too and said they should hop in.
They actually did. So now we have two girls in the car with us and we are vibing.
They gave us directions to their car because they had a bottle in there. We stopped there, drank in the car a bit, then eventually went to the strip.
At this point it was pretty physical. I was holding Girl A’s hand, and the vibe was on.
It was also late, around 2 AM, and the bars were closing, so we went for the pull. Since my wing and I live separately now, we went back to his place.
Back at the apartment
We got back to his place and kept drinking and vibing. Originally I was with Girl A and we isolated into a different area of the apartment. We started making out and things escalated. I got her partially undressed, but when I tried to move things further she stopped me, so I backed off.
Meanwhile, my wing ended up closing with Girl B, though apparently that wasn’t exactly smooth either.
Later on, the vibe kept going and we ended up switching. I brought Girl B down to my apartment. Things got physical, we made out & she was grabbing my d*ck, but again I was not able to fully close.
At that point I figured the night was basically over. Eventually the girls disappeared and I thought they had left.
Day two
I went to sleep thinking that was it. Then I woke up to the girls knocking on my door. Apparently they had come back, it was around 11 AM.
I invited them in, and they asked if they could crash for a bit while they waited on their grandma to pick them up. I said sure. Girl A immediately knocked out in my bed, so I ended up vibing with Girl B for a while. We hung out, cooked some food, made Brussels sprouts and mac and cheese, and then somehow started drinking again. Vodka came out and the whole thing just kept going.
Eventually Girl B and I got physical again. It seemed she was feeling me. We escalated in the bathroom(her sister was napping on my bed), and she went down on me, but I still could not fully close with her. Things did go further than before, but no full close.
After that we both ended up falling asleep.
Girl A wakes up
Later on, Girl A woke me up. We started vibing again and watched some TV. Eventually we started making out again, and this time things escalated further than the night before. There was still some resistance at first, but the vibe was different this time. More comfort, more time, less chaos.
She was very tight, so I slowed down, fingered her a bit, warmed her up more, and had to calibrate instead of forcing it.
Eventually we hooked up. This was the actual close from the whole sequence.
After that, I invited my wing down and he was able to isolate and hook up with Girl A as well.
So by the end of the whole thing, my wing ended up hooking up with both girls. I hooked up with Girl A and Girl B went down on me, but I did not fully close with her.
The whole situation was ridiculous in the best way. At one point one of them was just casually walking around my apartment half naked like she lived there. She also seemed to enjoy my robe and sweatpants.
Eventually I had to send them home in an Uber. Girl A told me she loved me before she left (drunken affection, but still nice haha.)
Since neither of us had work the next day, my wing and I hit a few quick approaches on the strip after that.
Analysis
This was easily one of the crazier sequences I have had. The biggest thing that stands out is that this all started from taking action and approaching directly.
We saw two girls walking on the street, my wing opened directly from the car, and we led from there. They were going to the strip, we were going to the strip, and we made the logistics easy. That was the key.
Instead of overthinking it, we just created the next step:
- stop the car
- open directly
- establish we were going the same place
- invite them in
- keep the vibe going
- move toward the pull when the bars were closing
Another important point is that the pull did not happen from a normal bar set. It happened because we were willing to engage outside the venue and move quickly when the opportunity appeared. That is a good reminder that opportunities are not always inside the bar. Sometimes they are on the street, on the way to the next venue, or in transit. Street game is truly a beast and honestly it's my favorite.
What I could have done better
The biggest thing I could have done better was slow down during the first escalation with Girl A. She was into me, but when I hit a bit of LMR, I should have adjusted faster and warmed things up more before trying to move further. That probably would have made the first attempt smoother.
The funny part is that with more time and comfort the next day, Girl A ended up being the one I actually closed with.
So the attraction was there. The timing and comfort were the issue.
Big takeaways
- Making up with my wing was a good thing, but the solo work I had done still mattered a lot. I felt much less dependent on anyone else.
- I should still continue to do solo sessions even though we are cool now. Maybe I’ll do solo during the week, and go out with wings on weekends.
- Direct action creates opportunities. This whole thing started because we opened two girls walking on the street.
- Logistics matter. They were already going to the strip, we were going to the strip, so the invite made sense.
- Pulls can happen outside normal venue interactions if you are willing to lead. Street game is goated.
- Escalation still needs calibration. If she is uncomfortable, slow down and reset.
- Sometimes comfort and time matter more than trying to force the close immediately.
- Day two can completely change the dynamic if the girls are still around and the vibe is still alive.
Two-night sequence(three if we count Sunday.)
Night one was around 30 approaches with no pull, but good volume and good momentum.
Night two started with a rooftop warm-up, turned into a street pull from the car, led to both girls coming back, and then somehow turned into a day-two situation the next morning.
Definitely one of the craziest stories I have had in a while.
Hell yeah.