"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LR: Daytime Bookstore Same Day Lay

Szyzzlin

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Nice field report... but what are you doing picking-up ugly chicks at a bookstore anyway?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Szyzzlin said:
Nice field report... but what are you doing picking-up ugly chicks at a bookstore anyway?
Jealousy will get you no where my friend. Trying being more positive and watch how far it will get you.
 

tihash

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I wouldn't say she was ugly... the face was just "ok." The body was rockin', but the face was "ok." That is why, even if she was not a slvt, I would not consider her for an LTR.

Anyhow, I forgot to put this in before, and am adding it in case any of you find it helpful in your own sarging.

I sorta debriefed her on the ride back, and asked her why she chose to "hang out" with me. She said lots of guys hit on her (direct stuff; she said a guy on a bus once asked her to come join him in the back seat of the bus) and when I sat down next to her she thought, "Oh, here we go..." but when I started talking to her and made it a "normal" conversation she felt "comfortable."

Those were her words.. normal conversation and comfortable.

So I guess the slvt didn't want to be treated like a slvt on the approach, and since I sarged her the way I would anyone (with the exception of fast escalation because it was so clear she was receptive to it) she decided to do it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Technical1 said:
:crackup: :crackup: .... um..... how much success are you having with the ladies with that sort of mindset?
You may laugh, but what you have to appreciate here is that different cultures do things in different ways. Every culture and society has places where you would not attempt to pick up a woman, eg.
  • insurance/financial advice centres (in America and Canada)
  • surgical waiting rooms (france, germany, etc.)
  • LUA meetings, LUAP queues, and most food outlets (Austria)
  • funerals (this one is common to most non-muslim countries)

and it just so happens that in the UK, book shops are such a place. I would STRONGLY appreciate it if from now on you saw things from other countries with an open mind, you might just learn something (see my "tips from the UK" thread in DJdiscsusions)
 

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mad props to you brother!

this is one of the most inspirational FRs I ve seen on here. IT IS a numbers's game! hey, maybe for something like this to happen you have to fail 1,000,000 times. But what do you got to loose?
 

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Hey man, that was brilliant! I'm a daygame devotee myself and have had similar experiences. You're right, every missed opportunity in the daytime could potentially have been a same day lay.

Guys, next time you're thinking of chickening out...think that the approach could lead to a same day lay!!
 
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