"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LR: Daytime Bookstore Same Day Lay
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MacAvoy
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Jealousy will get you no where my friend. Trying being more positive and watch how far it will get you.Szyzzlin said:Nice field report... but what are you doing picking-up ugly chicks at a bookstore anyway?
Anyhow, I forgot to put this in before, and am adding it in case any of you find it helpful in your own sarging.
I sorta debriefed her on the ride back, and asked her why she chose to "hang out" with me. She said lots of guys hit on her (direct stuff; she said a guy on a bus once asked her to come join him in the back seat of the bus) and when I sat down next to her she thought, "Oh, here we go..." but when I started talking to her and made it a "normal" conversation she felt "comfortable."
Those were her words.. normal conversation and comfortable.
So I guess the slvt didn't want to be treated like a slvt on the approach, and since I sarged her the way I would anyone (with the exception of fast escalation because it was so clear she was receptive to it) she decided to do it.
MacAvoy
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DonGorgon
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You may laugh, but what you have to appreciate here is that different cultures do things in different ways. Every culture and society has places where you would not attempt to pick up a woman, eg.Technical1 said::crackup: :crackup: .... um..... how much success are you having with the ladies with that sort of mindset?
- insurance/financial advice centres (in America and Canada)
- surgical waiting rooms (france, germany, etc.)
- LUA meetings, LUAP queues, and most food outlets (Austria)
- funerals (this one is common to most non-muslim countries)
and it just so happens that in the UK, book shops are such a place. I would STRONGLY appreciate it if from now on you saw things from other countries with an open mind, you might just learn something (see my "tips from the UK" thread in DJdiscsusions)
this is one of the most inspirational FRs I ve seen on here. IT IS a numbers's game! hey, maybe for something like this to happen you have to fail 1,000,000 times. But what do you got to loose?
DonGorgon
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True,krazyboy99 said:every nerd who transforms themselves into a playboy will accumulate hundreds of rejections under his belt
Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
Guys, next time you're thinking of chickening out...think that the approach could lead to a same day lay!!