"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LR: Daytime Bookstore Same Day Lay

Szyzzlin

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Nice field report... but what are you doing picking-up ugly chicks at a bookstore anyway?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Szyzzlin said:
Nice field report... but what are you doing picking-up ugly chicks at a bookstore anyway?
Jealousy will get you no where my friend. Trying being more positive and watch how far it will get you.
 

tihash

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I wouldn't say she was ugly... the face was just "ok." The body was rockin', but the face was "ok." That is why, even if she was not a slvt, I would not consider her for an LTR.

Anyhow, I forgot to put this in before, and am adding it in case any of you find it helpful in your own sarging.

I sorta debriefed her on the ride back, and asked her why she chose to "hang out" with me. She said lots of guys hit on her (direct stuff; she said a guy on a bus once asked her to come join him in the back seat of the bus) and when I sat down next to her she thought, "Oh, here we go..." but when I started talking to her and made it a "normal" conversation she felt "comfortable."

Those were her words.. normal conversation and comfortable.

So I guess the slvt didn't want to be treated like a slvt on the approach, and since I sarged her the way I would anyone (with the exception of fast escalation because it was so clear she was receptive to it) she decided to do it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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UKDonJuan

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Technical1 said:
:crackup: :crackup: .... um..... how much success are you having with the ladies with that sort of mindset?
You may laugh, but what you have to appreciate here is that different cultures do things in different ways. Every culture and society has places where you would not attempt to pick up a woman, eg.
  • insurance/financial advice centres (in America and Canada)
  • surgical waiting rooms (france, germany, etc.)
  • LUA meetings, LUAP queues, and most food outlets (Austria)
  • funerals (this one is common to most non-muslim countries)

and it just so happens that in the UK, book shops are such a place. I would STRONGLY appreciate it if from now on you saw things from other countries with an open mind, you might just learn something (see my "tips from the UK" thread in DJdiscsusions)
 

drak_ool

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mad props to you brother!

this is one of the most inspirational FRs I ve seen on here. IT IS a numbers's game! hey, maybe for something like this to happen you have to fail 1,000,000 times. But what do you got to loose?
 

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Hey man, that was brilliant! I'm a daygame devotee myself and have had similar experiences. You're right, every missed opportunity in the daytime could potentially have been a same day lay.

Guys, next time you're thinking of chickening out...think that the approach could lead to a same day lay!!
 
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