I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's fine for people to read and try to get tips... BUT it's also important to evaluate the details. You don't speak like that to people (man or woman).krazyboy99 said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Because thats how you get ahead in this world. Maybe if you took that advice, you'd get a greencard.ChrizZ said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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The Motivator said:funny funny stuff here
by the way Elstud, of your reading, THIS is what success looks like buddy
This girl, I met her from myspace 3 months ago.......we kissed at my house and i got a handjob, but she gave me an anti-slut defense that i couldnt get around. In the next 3 weeks, i tried to see her again, she kept flaking, so I called her a **** ***** dyke all these bad things haha (burned the bridge completely)
then a week later, when i was drunk, i "drunk texted" an apology to her, and she forgave me
then for 6 weeks didnt really contact her, and 4 days ago i flaked on her when i texted her and asked her to chill
yesterday my gf cancelled on me, so i texted this girl and she agreed to meet up at 9:30PM
I hope this helps people here
I'm not here to have dudes tell me how to get laid... I'm here to see WTF I'm so lonely for, and see if anyone else feels like I do.. Plus I get banned from every forum I go to and this is my only option ATM, lolkrazyboy99 said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Nope...not a virginChrizZ said:
HAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!MacAvoy said:
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Dude, you have over 1,000 post.ChrizZ said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.