"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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(LR)Another POF First Date, another SNL...

marmel75

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Naughty Ninja is THE man!!---and don't listen to his claims otherwise!!

Anyways, on my other thread, here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=199105

I detail what is going on using NaughtyNinja's methods and some successes. Well, tonight makes it 4 out of 6 SNL's on first dates with chicks off this site...

I am actually more proud of myself for this one than the others, because I really focused on escalating the kino throughout the date, starting right away with a full body hug, which ended with her pinching my sides...date actually lasted a good 3 hours(a lot longer than normal for me...) because we started playing darts after talking for about an hour and a half and she actually ordered me another drink and ordered food for us...that's when I knew I had some serious buy in as the place we were at was not cheap(Barlouie), and she is temporarily unemployed(starting new job Monday) so its not like she had extra money sitting around...

I could actually see her buying temperature going up as the date kept going and I kept touching...at first it was a few touches on her wrist as we stood talking at the bar, then I grabbed her hand and asked about the rings she had on(she had 4), then she actually grabbed my hand and asked about the ring I was wearing...then I led her away from the bar into a nice cozy back booth area and started making sure our legs were in constant contact with each other...at first it was just the knee, then it became the full leg, then the full leg and feet...I kept touching her hair and running my fingers through it, gave her a quick neck massage when the conversation turned towards her being stressed out from her last job, rubbed her back a few times, moved her hair over her ear and grabbed her earrings and ears and asked about those....she kept getting closer and closer to me...absolutely no resistance or pullback from any of the touches, I could tell she was starting to enjoy it more and more...

Could have went for the kiss at any point but didn't...just kept touching her, started touching her knee and then running my hand up the inside of her thigh, pulling it away right before I got to her pvssy area, and gave her a smirk...she smiled at me and giggled, as if she was thinking about something so I asked what was on her mind and she said "Ohhhh...nothing..."

Then I started teasing her some more and told her she was trouble and pushed her away from me...it only lasted a few seconds because she moved right back next to me...then we started playing darts and she went up to get me another drink/order food...

Went up behind her at the bar and started smelling her hair/neck area and whispered in her ear that she smelled so good, making sure my lips brushed against her ear and her neck on the way out...she turned to me and smiled, then leaned back into me...

Still didn't do anything, even though I knew I could at anytime. I love the tension that builds when we both know that I could kiss her whenever I want and there is no chance for rejection, but still don't...almost like playing a cat and mouse game with her...She made a comment about how "buff" I was looking in my shirt and rubbed my chest...

Got done playing darts and I told her I had to get going because I had to work the next morning..as we walk outside, she asked where my car was...told it was over there and asked where she was parked...she said the same way and smiled again...I knew it was about to be on...

We get to the cars and she turns to me and says it was nice meeting you, I go in for the hug/kiss and she comes all the way to me and kisses me on the mouth....and kisses me....and kisses me...and then starts tonguing me...first a little, then just about her whole tongue...I start grabbing on her ass(really nice ass in her tight jeans), then stick my hand down the back of her jeans and underneath her panties, grabbing bare ass and squeezing for a few seconds, then giving it a really short smack and squeezing it some more...just as I started doing this, I went for the death blow and started kissing her neck, gave her neck a lick from bottom to top, pulled her closer and started kissing her neck again, harder this time...she starts breathing heavier and heavier, then I ask her if she wants to go somewhere more private and she immediately says Yes...hopped in my car, went back to hers(she lived about 5 mins away) and the rest as they say is history...

Didn't even ask me to drive her back to get her car, said she will have her Mom drop her off in the morning to get it...

Moral of the story...touch early, touch often, get laid....didn't even go for the kiss inside when I knew I could have gotten it, laid back and played cool, kept touching...if you do it right, the rest becomes pretty easy...at some point it seems the woman realizes that she knows that you know you can kiss her whenever you want and by not doing it, it makes her want it more...at least with me it seems to, others experiences may vary...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pics?

and lol @ pof they're such sluts on that site i love it

had a girl suck my **** two weeks ago and she never called me back cause I didn't **** her, no harm no foul
 

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POF, on average, tends to be slvttier because the girls there are typically less attractive and are therefore more open to snl. Think of it this way: if you were a super hot chick would have your pick of the town every night you went out, would you really bother with a site like that? It's only after other avenues have failed (or are not as successful as she'd like) that she will resort to POF. Still, great for banging if you can stomach weeding through the heifers for the few slim ones.
 

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Ill post one when I get home...she actually looked better in person tho which surprised me...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lol..
forgot to say that at one point after about an hour in and my kino was starting to really increase, she actually pulled out her lip gloss and put it on and said something about how it really makes her lips look better...hahaha
 
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