"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LR: After a rough night , i see the light (+ condom broke)

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sandow

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haha, good shyt. Actually 2am is one of the better times to pull, at least for me. By that time most girls are pretty drunk and easier to pull.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Yeah. I escalate really fast on every target. And most of them want to cooperate (am i using the right word ? lol ) but anti-slut defense stops them.

So most of the time , they turn the cheek or back off a little bit or tell me im too forward i should relax.

So she was grinding on me and i was grabbing her head and going for the make out. She was turning the cheek. I just stared away and go for the makeout again. Again cheek. Until she gave up.

How did she react ?
She didn't react because she was waiting for it. If you approach a girl fully direct she knows whats going on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nice hit and run prick, you didn't leave your number? you might as well as just totaled a car and drove off without showing ur insurance. scumbag
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Actually , from the reaction that the girl gave , im pretty sure she was on pill. She kept laughing and looking me like a retard while i was screaming SH!T SH!T , I FVCKED IT UP. I don't know this never happened to me. I used Love Plus even though my friends warned me 1000 times not to use it. But i had no choice.

Im pretty sure she was on pill or something but this still remains a good lesson.

To pull even though you have a condom.
 

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Jblitz59 said:
nice hit and run prick, you didn't leave your number? you might as well as just totaled a car and drove off without showing ur insurance. scumbag
Yeah, even though he wore a condom, he should've left his full name, telephone number, and address after she consented to the deed because you know it's like the woman has to prove paternity, and the guy has a say in whether to abort, and the guy has equal rights to custody, and child support is reasonable. Nice analogy because a woman has less control of this type of situation than a car acccident :rolleyes: .
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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