“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The bolded bqck and forth bit above , to me = she was likely thinking of a bang w you. But they can’t come out and say it. Gotta read between the lines at this point and make an assumption.
I'm sure the thought crossed her mind early, since she was available to see me the same night we matched, but I think that moment happens here, rather than where you have it bolded:

"Ok...well...do you want to just drive around?"
"Sure, that sounds good."

I'm as surprised as you are.
I'm sure having my own place would be better, but she didn't seem to mind. As I said, she drunkenly hit me up during a couple of weekends, but always while drinking with her friends, and always getting distracted. Saying she misses me and wants me to do "the thing" (with my fingers) again.

I'm not holding my breath, but I wouldn't say no.

btw what resources would u suggest for the fingerbanging lessons/ learning.
You know, I tried to find the resource I myself suggested, and had to do a bit of digging. Because it isn't immediately apparent, I've linked the video at the timestamp where he starts going into specifics:

 

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I'm sure the thought crossed her mind early, since she was available to see me the same night we matched, but I think that moment happens here, rather than where you have it bolded:



I'm sure having my own place would be better, but she didn't seem to mind. As I said, she drunkenly hit me up during a couple of weekends, but always while drinking with her friends, and always getting distracted. Saying she misses me and wants me to do "the thing" (with my fingers) again.

I'm not holding my breath, but I wouldn't say no.



You know, I tried to find the resource I myself suggested, and had to do a bit of digging. Because it isn't immediately apparent, I've linked the video at the timestamp where he starts going into specifics:

Digging, huh?
 

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I'm sure the thought crossed her mind early, since she was available to see me the same night we matched, but I think that moment happens here, rather than where you have it bolded:



I'm sure having my own place would be better, but she didn't seem to mind. As I said, she drunkenly hit me up during a couple of weekends, but always while drinking with her friends, and always getting distracted. Saying she misses me and wants me to do "the thing" (with my fingers) again.

I'm not holding my breath, but I wouldn't say no.



You know, I tried to find the resource I myself suggested, and had to do a bit of digging. Because it isn't immediately apparent, I've linked the video at the timestamp where he starts going into specifics:

Cheers for the video.
This is pretty much similar to something a chick told me a few years back re how some squirting master dude made her go off .
very intense and strong yep, that’s what I gathered then too.
takes a lot of strength , pressure and hard ‘frigging’ of the hands n fingers. ( v tiring actually)
I’ve gotten arm cramps at times tryna manually get chicks off.
Makes logical sense this is the way tho.
As all chicks have vibrators. And vibrators have a very high TopSpeed usually .(scary stuff…! )lol.

I’ll study this .

Re the timing /when thing during this intersection .
Id read it as the pause in texting.

“no reply is a reply” as chicks say. I’d read between the lines there and make a proposal at that point.
 

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Digging, huh?
Well, the video title doesn't explicitly mention "fingering", and he spends the first 10 minutes or so talking about a woman's capacity for squirting, along with the mental component, so I'm sure if I'd said "the Stirling Cooper video about fingering", most probably wouldn't have found it, or watched it long enough to get the correct info.

takes a lot of strength , pressure and hard ‘frigging’ of the hands n fingers. ( v tiring actually)
I’ve gotten arm cramps at times tryna manually get chicks off.
Seriously...I've had several instances where my thumb has been locked up for a day or two afterwards.
 

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Well, the video title doesn't explicitly mention "fingering", and he spends the first 10 minutes or so talking about a woman's capacity for squirting, along with the mental component, so I'm sure if I'd said "the Stirling Cooper video about fingering", most probably wouldn't have found it, or watched it long enough to get the correct info.



Seriously...I've had several instances where my thumb has been locked up for a day or two afterwards.
It's so funny because I've had women tell me they can't squirt and I tell them they can, you just haven't been with someone that knows how to make that happen...and I've literally had women freaking out being like "Oh my God, Oh my God...oh my God!!! What is happening...what is happennnniiiiinnnnnngggg!"

Suffice to say in those cases you can be assured you have reached the top of her list and have no competition.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Well, the video title doesn't explicitly mention "fingering", and he spends the first 10 minutes or so talking about a woman's capacity for squirting, along with the mental component, so I'm sure if I'd said "the Stirling Cooper video about fingering", most probably wouldn't have found it, or watched it long enough to get the correct info.



Seriously...I've had several instances where my thumb has been locked up for a day or two afterwards.
a few weeks back I was beneath a chick, with arms up and bent over in an ‘M’ shape and the two hands going, left on the cl1tt area rubbing , right hand hammering her with her vibrator.
I was going for ages down there.
swear, my right arm locked up so bad from the hanmering. Had pains all over next day.

and get lock JAW sometimes too. Haha.

I must learn shortcuts.

Other video resources I’ve found good in the past , that I need to rewatch. These are pornstar instructional video courses;

-Nina Hartleys guide to Oral Sex (excellent)
-Penny Flames guide to handjobs for men and women.

I like these pornstar ones. And Nina’s stuff especially. ( b educational) plus cos it’s porn also obvs :D
Nina has a giant inflatable Vagina she demos the bits on , pretty funny. Then she takes her clothes off (great tits) and demos on a real chick. Then it goes into a porno scene. Recommended!
 
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a few weeks back I was beneath a chick, with arms up and bent over in an ‘M’ shape and the two hands going, left on the cl1tt area rubbing , right hand hammering her with her vibrator.
I was going for ages down there.
swear, my right arm locked up so bad from the hanmering. Had pains all over next day.

and get lock JAW sometimes too. Haha.

I must learn shortcuts.

Other video resources I’ve found good in the past , that I need to rewatch. These are pornstar instructional video courses;

-Nina Hartleys guide to Oral Sex (excellent)
-Penny Flames guide to handjobs for men and women.

I like these pornstar ones. And Nina’s stuff especially. ( b educational) plus cos it’s porn also obvs :D
Nina has a giant inflatable Vagina she demos the bits on , pretty funny. Then she takes her clothes off (great tits) and demos on a real chick. Then it goes into a porno scene. Recommended!
Here is another video that you can add to your “resources” catalogue.

 
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