"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lowering standards (slightly).

TheMonkeyKing

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Currently, I am in touch with a couple of 7's and I want to get with the to satiate the thirst that has come about from a 3 month dry spell.

Girl One has basically offered it to me on a plate, apparently no strings attached, telling me about her spanking fetish etc. She is of course already glossing over her own interest level, as she's texting me throughout the day etc.

Girl Two is actually a decent chick who is probably good to go after a date or two as well; but I'm not in the business of stringing decent folks along anymore.

Do you ever go with girls you're not necessarily attracted to and how do you avoid the inevitable attachment?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes but I dont lead them on at all. attachment isnt inevitable unless they're actually bringing something to the table.
I meant their attachment.
 

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I don't feel like it is stringing somebody along if you are just having fun and spinning other plates. The plates part is important because if you are constantly investing in them, showering them with attention I believe that's when you cross the line into .. leading somebody on. Women assume, let them. If you keep your investment level low it is hard to mistake it for a potential ltr

Just be prepared to have the talk, most women will usually avoid it until they notice your dj behaviour.
 
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